Psychological Counselling
Couple relationship problem
Hi doc, me and my wife has frequent fight. we are not agree on same point. i feel she is not mature and she think i am rude & not respecting her.
whenever we had fight i just stop talking becase i dont want argue, and i get irritate.
due to this i am loosing interest on her and not physically attracted towards her.
please asvice how i can manage the things with my wife, i want healthy relationship with her. basically i expect below things from my wife:
- care my parents like she do our child
- tasty food by wifes hand
- good sex (not vanilla only) means enjoy in bed as well.
i am not getting anything from above these from my wife which makes me unhappy with her.
and with this i dont fullfill her requirement as well. so we had more fight.
when i tried to talk her but she is immature and unable to understand.
please help how can i explain my feeling to her, as she is not understand . please advice how can i improve my relation with my wife.
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