Psychological Counselling
Feeling very low. Post partum issue
I'm feeling incredibly low and left out. My daughter just turned 9 months old, and we live with my in-laws. I also work remotely.
Now that my daughter recognizes everyone, she seems so much more attached to my mother-in-law. I spend all day, 24/7, with her. Yet, in the evenings, for just 2-3 hours, she's completely with my MIL. If she even sees my mother-in-law pass by, she drops everything and goes to her. When we ask her to choose who she wants to go with, she picks my MIL over me every single time.
It truly makes me feel so low and depressed. Despite being with her constantly, she never seems to miss me or long for me. I can't help but wonder where I'm going wrong. I'm so confused and heartbroken. Is it because I couldn't breastfeed her? I was unable to due to serious medical conditions—I had dengue, an emergency C-section, and then pneumonia, requiring o2 for 48hrs. Is it coz of this that she is not attached to me? please help im feeling very low.
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Excessive pain in back and hip
Hi, I was having severe pain in my lower back and one day suddenly my left leg got numb and I couldn't lift it. I was admitted to hospital where after MRI scan it was mild disc diagnosed. But the pain remained constant. I was then after two weeks taken to hospital as my pain in the back reached till my hip and chest. Done with physio taking consultation from pain management but the pain keeps on increasing. Kindly see the reports and guide what can be done as I am unable to sit because of the pain.. I have consulted orthopedist, neurologist - almost 4-5 doctors, now they are saying that the reports show mild disc, which should not give such severe pain. Recent doctor has suggested me to take hip MRI also which has been normal. I am having so much pain that I am not able to go to office also and facing pain like an emergency sometimes, the pain is real however doctor is not understanding and saying the reports are normal.
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Past trauma
Hello,Can you please tell me should I tell my partner about I was sexually assaulted when I was 20 year old.It already took me years to get out of it.As I m planning to get married but deep inside I m feeling that by hiding this truth I m betraying my partner.When I think about it I filled with guilt.It was his right to know about it as it should be his decision to be with me or not .Please tell me what should I do as I know that a marriage should be built on truth and trust.I also don't want to hide this from him.
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Fear of diseases and overthinking
From past two months i am having heavy fear for getting illness especially cancer.I am worrying about all small small symptoms and getting thoughts about cancer.I am not able to sleep or do anything.I visited almost all doctors and did all the test everything come out normal.Still this fear is not getting out of my mind.Please help me with this .How will i go back to my normal life back then.
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Uneven right rib cage
I feel like my uneven ribcage is too late to fix now and I feel like my life is ruin.................
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Eating disorder
I don't know what I am gng through I am constantly eating food like tubs of ice cream and it's being happening since 1month with me and constantly under stress
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Help me out i feel like i am drowning
I have been depressed, anxious and have shown slight signals of adult adhd since 2017. struggled a lot. fumbled a lot of exams and classes. went from a all a+ student to 70% in 12th. took a degree that i didn't like 'cause of family pressure. fumbled my degree too. missed so many exams solely from falling asleep in exam hall. i tried to seek help in 2022 by going to a therapist and she asked me to go to a psychiatrist and get meds to control my illness. i couldn't afford it at that time (still can't). then my therapist did something that broke my trust in her and i ghosted her since. i couldn't go back. now i am trying to fix my life and get my degree but my university is asking me for a medical certificate on why i missed so many internal components like assignments and class tests during my 5 years of ba.llb. HOW DO I GET A CERTIFICATE AT THIS POINT? HOW DO I MAKE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND MY SITUATION? I DON'T WANT TO DIE BUT IF I DONT GET THIS DEGREE I HAVE WASTED SO MUCH LIFE, I SHOULD.
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Excessive Masturbation
I am addicted to few things. I feel the need of councelling session. I am trying to do self control but lacking in few things. Trying to take the session but find it a bit expensive.
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Depression.
I have the following symptoms
1.Disturbed sleep cycle
2. Loss of interest in everything I love doing
3. Abrupt weight gain
4.Do not want to meet or talk to anyone
5. No focus on my studies
6.Confidence lost
7. Anxiety in starting things
There are no friends or guides who can help me..
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Anxiety and Depression
Hi, I m suffering from anxiety due to some own health issues now cured, tensed all time, social anxiety as i am introvert, Performance Pressure, but when i go to washroom my anxiety goes away immediately and when i came back from washroom, it comes back Due to this i started going to washroom many times a day for 30-40 minutes each time I don't know due to this i got feeling and pressure of poo many time a day, but nothing comes out Sometimes i go to washroom sit on the chair and using my phone and comes back, it becomes my routine now days as i feel relaxed there I want to know is it normal or which measures can i take to cure my anxiety
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