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I get angry very quickly when special things are not according to me. I am also overthinking.It has been 1 year of marriage, in that small matter I feel like to divorce me, my thyroid is also in help
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May be you have become insecure or rigid. We can work on inner conflicts to unwind your mind Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online All the best
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It can be hypochondriasis which can lead to frustration on triffle. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medication if required.
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Do considering to talk to a counsellor. Talk out your heart maybe we'll see what is bothering you.
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relaxation techniques
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One needs to understand the reason of anger. What is not inside cannot come out. Meet me for deeper self awareness and finding solutions. I am a Counselling psychologist. You need counselling.
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Hi You can consult a psychologist and talk about what is bothering you.
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U need to take  counseling session with a psychologist. Pl share your thyroid report on whatsapp .. Nine Seven Nine Five three four five six seven eight. TC
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Hi Therapy Steps Logical or rationalizing techniques. Guided imagery and visualization. Reframing. Using humor and irony. Exposing yourself to whatever you fear. Disputing irrational beliefs.
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Consult a psychological Counselor who is also a Marriage Counselor.. You might get a clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life..
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Hello dear I can understand what you might be feeling. It is nice that you are aware of your anger issues and accept it. You might be feeling irritated at lots of things and also might be trying to control it. Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible. You can also contact me and I will try to help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solution. Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Namaste, An anger outburst can have multiple reasons such as childhood trauma, personal/professional inadequacies, being nee to a marital set up which are also conversely affecting your Thyroid levels. The fact you’ve realised there is a problem, you’ve already taken the first step towards the solution. Next would be to seek professional help. Hoping you take the rightful help!
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Hi... Please seek professional help. It will help you find answers to your deepest questions. It is easy to discuss with a professional in a therapeutic setting as it is non judgemental, confidential, and neutral.
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Consult a Psychologist. Interpersonal Relationship Counselling and Lifestyle Guidance is required.
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Hi. Thank you for sharing and being courageous to seek professional help. You may want to seek mental health counseling and psychotherapy sessions with a psychologist. For your anger management, you may want to understand where your anger is actually stemming from. It can be disappointment, helplessness, sadness or just a feeling of not being in control. Try to explore which kind of things/ situations frustrate you - which ones are under your control and which ones you have no control over. You can practice 10-15 mins of deep breathing daily and write down your true inner feelings. You can also learn better communication skills with your husband. Your thyroid can be due to stress and other issues. Try to follow a consistent sleep pattern and exercise your body regularly. Also contact a medical doctor for thyroid.
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Hi ...you needs Counseling to resolve underlying issue.u can get in touch with me at my contact number Seven eight nine two seven zero five four seven seven.session will be of fifty minutes for three hundred available. Get in touch for therapy.
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Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems—problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion. This brochure is meant to help you understand and control anger. Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. You could be angry at a specific person (such as a coworker or supervisor) or event (a traffic jam, a canceled flight), or your anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems. Memories of traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings.
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If you feel that your anger is really out of control, if it is having an impact on your relationships and on important parts of your life, you might consider counseling to learn how to handle it better. A psychologist or other licensed mental health professional can work with you in developing a range of techniques for changing your thinking and your behavior. Anger Management. Cognitive reconstruction. Contact me for further assistance.
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Relaxation Simple relaxation tools, such as deep breathing and relaxing imagery, can help calm down angry feelings. There are books and courses that can teach you relaxation techniques, and once you learn the techniques, you can call upon them in any situation. If you are involved in a relationship where both partners are hot-tempered, it might be a good idea for both of you to learn these techniques. Some simple steps you can try: Breathe deeply, from your diaphragm; breathing from your chest won't relax you. Picture your breath coming up from your "gut." Slowly repeat a calm word or phrase such as "relax," "take it easy." Repeat it to yourself while breathing deeply. Use imagery; visualize a relaxing experience, from either your memory or your imagination. Nonstrenuous, slow yoga-like exercises can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer. Practice these techniques daily. Learn to use them automatically when you're in a tense situation. Cognitive Restructuring Simply put, this means changing the way you think. Angry people tend to curse, swear, or speak in highly colorful terms that reflect their inner thoughts. When you're angry, your thinking can get very exaggerated and overly dramatic. Try replacing these thoughts with more rational ones. For instance, instead of telling yourself, "oh, it's awful, it's terrible, everything's ruined," tell yourself, "it's frustrating, and it's understandable that I'm upset about it, but it's not the end of the world and getting angry is not going to fix it anyhow." Be careful of words like "never" or "always" when talking about yourself or someone else. "This !&*%@ machine never works," or "you're always forgetting things" are not just inaccurate, they also serve to make you feel that your anger is justified and that there's no way to solve the problem. They also alienate and humiliate people who might otherwise be willing to work with you on a solution. Remind yourself that getting angry is not going to fix anything, that it won't make you feel better (and may actually make you feel worse). Logic defeats anger, because anger, even when it's justified, can quickly become irrational. So use cold hard logic on yourself. Remind yourself that the world is "not out to get you," you're just experiencing some of the rough spots of daily life. Do this each time you feel anger getting the best of you, and it'll help you get a more balanced perspective. Angry people tend to demand things: fairness, appreciation, agreement, willingness to do things their way. Everyone wants these things, and we are all hurt and disappointed when we don't get them, but angry people demand them, and when their demands aren't met, their disappointment becomes anger. As part of their cognitive restructuring, angry people need to become aware of their demanding nature and translate their expectations into desires. In other words, saying, "I would like" something is healthier than saying, "I demand" or "I must have" something. When you're unable to get what you want, you will experience the normal reactions—frustration, disappointment, hurt—but not anger. Some angry people use this anger as a way to avoid feeling hurt, but that doesn't mean the hurt goes away. Problem Solving Sometimes, our anger and frustration are caused by very real and inescapable problems in our lives. Not all anger is misplaced, and often it's a healthy, natural response to these difficulties. There is also a cultural belief that every problem has a solution, and it adds to our frustration to find out that this isn't always the case. The best attitude to bring to such a situation, then, is not to focus on finding the solution, but rather on how you handle and face the problem. Make a plan, and check your progress along the way. Resolve to give it your best, but also not to punish yourself if an answer doesn't come right away. If you can approach it with your best intentions and efforts and make a serious attempt to face it head-on, you will be less likely to lose patience and fall into all-or-nothing thinking, even if the problem does not get solved right away. Better Communication Angry people tend to jump to—and act on—conclusions, and some of those conclusions can be very inaccurate. The first thing to do if you're in a heated discussion is slow down and think through your responses. Don't say the first thing that comes into your head, but slow down and think carefully about what you want to say. At the same time, listen carefully to what the other person is saying and take your time before answering. Listen, too, to what is underlying the anger. For instance, you like a certain amount of freedom and personal space, and your "significant other" wants more connection and closeness. If he or she starts complaining about your activities, don't retaliate by painting your partner as a jailer, a warden, or an albatross around your neck. It's natural to get defensive when you're criticized, but don't fight back. Instead, listen to what's underlying the words: the message that this person might feel neglected and unloved. It may take a lot of patient questioning on your part, and it may require some breathing space, but don't let your anger—or a partner's—let a discussion spin out of control. Keeping your cool can keep the situation from becoming a disastrous one. Using Humor "Silly humor" can help defuse rage in a number of ways. For one thing, it can help you get a more balanced perspective. When you get angry and call someone a name or refer to them in some imaginative phrase, stop and picture what that word would literally look like. If you're at work and you think of a coworker as a "dirtbag" or a "single-cell life form," for example, picture a large bag full of dirt (or an amoeba) sitting at your colleague's desk, talking on the phone, going to meetings. Do this whenever a name comes into your head about another person. If you can, draw a picture of what the actual thing might look like. This will take a lot of the edge off your fury; and humor can always be relied on to help unknot a tense situation. Changing Your Environment Sometimes it's our immediate surroundings that give us cause for irritation and fury. Problems and responsibilities can weigh on you and make you feel angry at the "trap" you seem to have fallen into and all the people and things that form that trap. Give yourself a break. Make sure you have some "personal time" scheduled for times of the day that you know are particularly stressful. One example is the working mother who has a standing rule that when she comes home from work, for the first 15 minutes "nobody talks to Mom unless the house is on fire." After this brief quiet time, she feels better prepared to handle demands from her kids without blowing up at them. Some Other Tips for Easing Up on Yourself Timing: If you and your spouse tend to fight when you discuss things at night—perhaps you're tired, or distracted, or maybe it's just habit—try changing the times when you talk about important matters so these talks don't turn into arguments. Avoidance: If your child's chaotic room makes you furious every time you walk by it, shut the door. Don't make yourself look at what infuriates you. Don't say, "well, my child should clean up the room so I won't have to be angry!" That's not the point. The point is to keep yourself calm.
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Anger management techniques and cognitive behavioral therapy will work .
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