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Wife has anger problem, she gets offended and angry for any small thing. What is the best treatment for this type of issue. Is there an underlying problem usually also
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In such case you need to deal her with love and patience try to find out the reason behind the anger and try to avoid her. If she is suffering from any hormonal imbalance then you need to correct it because hormonal imbalance is the major cause of anger and irritability.
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Hi friend the brief information provided seems to indicate poor communication between the 2 of you . You need to value the need & importance of a relationship . Emotional confidence need to be addressed probably in case of both of you .
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Both of you need to consult a senior , experienced Psychologist for Tele Counselling session to develop a congenial relationship .
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I understand your predicament. Here are a few suggestions that could help her. In case she feels she needs further help, kindly fix an appointment through the Practo app. The following is addressed to her : Awareness of how the mind works and how thoughts are generated will help you deal with the challenges you are facing right now. The nature of the Mind, which in simple terms we experience as thoughts, is such that, it will keep shifting its focus from one object/topic/event to another. Ii always needs something to hold on to. Today the mind might be fixated on something. Tomorrow it could be another topic/event/person. Another important characteristic of the Mind is this - You may either have thoughts about the past or the future. This keeps alternating. Try thinking about the present moment - you will see that the Mind and 'Now' can never coexist. The Mind has 3 states in general. Sometimes, you may find yourself having very positive, inspiring thoughts. During other times, you may find yourself very emotional, or all charged for action. Whereas during other times, you may feel very lethargic, dull or lazy. These states will keep alternating. Having understood the nature of the mind, the first step towards mental health is to become aware of your thoughts. Learning to be an observer of your thoughts, learning to observe them from a distance like clouds passing in the sky. Just like how the clothes you are wearing right now are yours, but not you, thoughts that you experience from time to time are yours, but not you. The next step is knowing that you have the power to choose which thought you wish to focus on and act on and exercising that power. With practice, you will have better mastery over this process. Having negative thoughts is something that plagues everybody from time to time. Trust me, even if everything was perfect, we may still find some shortcomings somewhere and brood about it. As mentioned above, with practice, you will learn to focus and entertain only those thoughts are healthy enough to be acted upon. Whenever you feel overwhelmed by thoughts, just bring your focus back to your breath and take a few relaxing breaths. Here is a breathing exercise that could help you : You may do this in the night too once you have finished with your tasks for the day : Inhale slowly to a count of four - hold your breath to a count of four - exhale slowly to a count of eight. Repeat this twenty times. You may do this also in the morning before you begin your daily routine. Gently massage the back of your neck and the base of the skull when you lie down to rest. Whatever you feed your mind through your sense organs will be replayed to you as thoughts. Be conscious of this. Take care of the content you feed your mind - the kind of books you read, the websites you visit, the kind of music you listen to, the kind of food you eat, the kind of company you keep ( "You are an average of five people you spend most of your time with" ) Our attitude towards life in general and things in particular is based on our Beliefs - what we believe to be true about ourselves and the world. What are your core beliefs about yourself and the world? The situations that typically make you lose your temper - what are the beliefs associated with them that unsettle you? Try writing them down and examine the validity of these beliefs. Some of them may be limiting and negative in nature because of the kind of feedback you received while growing up - at home, in school, from your classmates, friends, relatives, etc. But once you are aware of them, you shed light on them,examine their truth, they can no longer manipulate your behavior or actions. As your beliefs change, your attitude changes, and words, actions and behavior follow. Ask yourself : Where would I like to see myself ten years from now? What should I do today to reach there ten years from now? What would I do if I knew I wouldn't fail? What would I do if I weren't afraid? No matter how impossible the answers might seem, I want you to know that you can make them possible. Take the first step. The rest will follow. Take ownership of every moment, take responsibility for it and confidently work towards your dreams and aspirations. One day you will thank these dark moments for being the fuel for your success. Please set aside time for exercise daily and make sure you eat healthy every time. Our challenges that seem to threaten our very existence are the ones that serve as fuel for our evolution. Here are a few links that could be helpful : https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41615 https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41716 https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41639 Step One https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41640 Step Two https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41641 Step Three https://fit.practo.com/#!/content/41645 Step Four Take care.
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Anger is a feeling and it could be due to various reason.. We need to understand her personality first. You can start counselling sessions and I am sure we can work on anger management and help her with ways to control it.
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Could be.. Maybe she was pampered by her parents.. Maybe, she got everything in her life before marriage in the way she wanted.. There could be various reasons for it.. You can reach me for an online consultation by using the link given below :- https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Hi. If your wife is angry or aggressive or shouts at small things, understand she needs anger management.  She might be stressed with things that dont happen on right way. Give counselling and therapy will solve her issues quickly. Then also understand she needs support and love from your family. You need not point her mistakes. Just accept her and help her out. Also you can get counselling on how to support her and help her.
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take her to counselling.  or get phone counselling
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She needs counselling. We need to talk to her and you as well to identify the core issues behind this problem. This can be solved.. Don't worry. For independent counselling sessions contact me..
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consult a psychologist immediately
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