•  Rule 1: Marriage is not about one person it's about two becoming one. It’s not about you getting all your needs met by another person. Learning and practising self-sacrifice, patience, dying to self, understanding and forgiveness are the bases of a good marriage.
  • Rule 2: Getting married is a 2nd step of growing up.The best preparation for marriage for a single person is to stand up take up the responsibility.
  • Rule 3: A honest and truthful man will be satisfied with a love of one woman for a lifetime. An honest woman will be content with and respect one man for a lifetime.
  • Rule 4: Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in negatives but enjoys with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hope, always perseveres.
  • Rule 5: Media has connected relationships (unreal) and with old friends schoolmates, affairs, multiple sexual affairs, and emotional comfort are substituting for the real feeling.  
  • Rule 6: Women can do anything for LOVE. Men can do anything for S-E-X. If you want to be romantic with your spouse, imitate him act like his student, register for lifelong membership “Romantic Academy,” and become open minded and be fluent. 
  • Rule 7: Dating time, opposites sex attract. After marriage, it's a rocky ground sometimes and opposites can repel each other. You married your spouse because he/she is a right match.
  • Rule 8: Pornography is about sex being used for the wrong reasons. The viewer starts wondering what is wrong with their relationships and gets irritated or depressed. They end up feeling emotionally empty and disconnected from their partner. Porn cannot be a substitute. 
  • Rule 9: You will have a lovely house but you need to make it a home. These days most couples fail to build a marriage, because they marry for wrong reasons. As they begin building, they discover that a home can’t be built from two different mindsets.
  • Rule 10: Marriage needs a lot of effort, Its all about keeping the other person happy or how much you have accomplished and how you have accepted, loved and living today.

Marriage is a school that should have a kids mindset only then, your marriage will function well.