Menopausal females are more prone to have depression, anxiety, sleep disturbances which are usually  neglected or masked due to vasomotor symptoms of menopause. This results in poor quality of life, stress and poor social and occupational life.Multiple pain syndromes, panic attacks, sexual dysfunction added with neglected attitude towards ones health aggravate the situation. Almost four years before the menopause sets in almost 50 % females have symptoms of perimenopause. Almost 30 life years are there to be lived still after menopause so timely detection and intervention is the key to the best management. Healthy life style, finding new hobbies, support of family along with proper pharmacological treatment. An interactive session organised bt Agra Menopausal Society on this neglected topic is a sign of increasing awareness.