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I'm so much stressed after marrying the man I loved knowing that he only cares about his mother more and not me. He doesn't give me time, care and love and doesn't even understand me when I told him to spend some time with me as we are having long distance due to work. He doesn't communicate well either and his mother is really a third person who doesn't like me as I'm from other state and also tries to separate us because she wants him to marry her friend's daughter and for this she even does illegal supernatural stuffs through such islamic and tantrik people of cremation places to keep him in her control.
I've a proof and even shown him once but he's not ready to believe at all and instead switches off the phone whenever I want to make him understand to the point of leaving me. His mother is so evil lady who even tried killing me many times and still I'm not able to bring up her truth near him because he loves her blindly and doesn't want to believe in her magic and negative side.😔
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The difficulties youâre facing in your marriageâfeeling neglected, misunderstood, and caught in a conflict involving your husbandâs familyâare understandably overwhelming. Your feelings of hurt, frustration, and stress are valid. Itâs important to address these emotions and work towards finding solutions that foster understanding and balance in your relationship.
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Open Communication: While itâs challenging, continue to express your feelings and needs to your husband in a calm and constructive manner. It may help to share specific examples of how his actions affect you emotionally. Relationship Counseling: A neutral space with a counselor can help both you and your husband explore your concerns and work on strengthening communication and understanding. Prioritize Your Safety: If you feel threatened or unsafe due to any actions involving his mother or others, itâs essential to take appropriate precautions. Seek local resources for support or legal advice if necessary.
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Self-Care: Amidst the stress, prioritize your emotional and physical well-being. Engage in activities that bring you peace, such as journaling, meditation, or spending time with trusted friends. Build a Support System: Confide in trusted friends, family, or a professional counselor who can provide emotional support. Set Boundaries: Gently but firmly establish boundaries in your interactions to protect your mental health while navigating this situation. We understand how challenging this is, and weâre here to help you find clarity and strength. Let us know if youâd like to schedule a session where we can dive deeper into solutions tailored to your needs.
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Setting healthy boundaries was very important
You will have to take some regular therapy
Consult for same
All the best
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There seems to be a very challenging situation in which there may be emotional turmoil, stress and anxiety. Many women struggle with placing boundaries with partners or family members in a healthy and assertive manner.
Therapy can help you in the following areas:
Emotionally regulating yourself and learning to feel safe in your body
Identifying and learning to convey boundaries over a period of time with family members
Changing your response to these activities instead of reacting
Working with thought patterns, overthinking or negative beliefs thag may be there consciously or unconsciously
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seek professional help through therapy and work on stabilizing your self and releasing pent up emotions
Through therapy you can find a space to safely express yourself and feel heard and understood
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Please consult with a psychologist to resolve inner conflicts
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It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well managed with relationship counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine if required.
You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling Psychologist for the last 17 years. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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Ms. Shariha
Counselling Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Delhi
Its okay nomatter how much efforts u put in it wont be worth it … u need to set your boundaries and be careful
U might need to consult therapist and if he agrees couple therapist as well
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Ms. Rizwana Parvin T M
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Coimbatore
I am really sorry for what you are going through. I understand how you want to complain and criticize about this incident to your husband. You have to ignore the thoughts about this experience and improve communication with your husband by talking only positive things till your relationship bonds. Empathise and speak so it will help you filter what to say what not to say to your husband. As talking further about your mother-in-law will only create unpleasantness between you too.
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consult a psychologist to improve strategic and diplomatic communication
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Ms. Pooja Gupta
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8 yrs exp
Delhi
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Iâm really sorry to hear that youâre facing such a difficult and stressful situation in your marriage. It sounds incredibly challenging to feel neglected and unvalued by your husband, especially when he prioritizes his mother over your needs. Long-distance relationships can be tough, and itâs important for both partners to communicate and support each other. Itâs concerning to hear about the potential manipulative actions of his mother and the lack of trust and understanding in your relationship. You deserve to be in a partnership where your feelings and safety are prioritized and respected. It might be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a professional counselor who can help you navigate these complex emotions and find a way to approach your situation with clarity and strength. Ultimately, your well-being is vital, and you deserve a relationship built on mutual respect and love.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I would suggest both of you to consult a Relationship Expert Psychologist /therapist to understand each other better and to get a clarity..
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