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In love with two guys
I am guilty to having fallen in love with two guys at the same time! I am confused to the level I can't sleep, can't eat and can't function! Please help
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Hello, I see that you are deeply attached to two men at the same time. I can imagine how confusing and distressing the situation may be for you at the moment. Taking support from a counselor who holds expertise in dealing with relationship concerns can help you manage through the present situation. The counselor can help you explore your thoughts about the two men and how to implement the choice you are inclined to make. Even if you don't wish to make a choice, the counseling setup can help provide you space to express your thoughts freely and feel safe. I hope this provides you with clarity.
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Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online
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Hi,You should know what you want from your life and be honest with both of them.Uncertainity can cause anxiety and worry.Be assertive and honest.Consult a psychologist for counseling sessions
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To resolve a conflict connect with psychologist who will help to deal with the situation effectively
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You have fallen in love with two guys at the same time and it is making you feel anxious and confused. To feel better consult a psychologist and explain about the two guys you like.
Analysing the situation with a calm mind will help you. A psychologist will help you with stress management techniques to feel calm.
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Mr. Vijay Kumar
Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
To begin with, please know that falling in love with two or more people at the same time is not at all uncommon. Yet, considering various social and legal fallouts of the same, people usually settle with one person as spouse / partner. I understand your state of mind when you “love” two people at the same time. Yet I would suggest you explore the possibility of treating both of them just as close friends and see, in the long run, who ultimately commands your love more. Give it some time and the picture will become clear. It is also possible that with time, you may not like / love either of them. Maybe you can take help of a psychologist in exploring this.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You are experiencing a typical approach-avoidance conflict. Where you don't want let go either of them and can't bear the guilt associated with loving 2 men at the same time. You need to have an open dialogue in a therapeutic setting to identify what you really want and what need/conflict it is representing at a deeper level. Typically a neglected child has a tendency to develop such complex adult relationships in order to fulfil their deprived childhood longings.
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Interpersonal Relationship Counselling and Personal Guidance is required.
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Ms. Sharmila
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Chennai
Hi, I understand that you have been through some difficult time but trust me we will face this together. Contact - nine three four four six eight eight four two one
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