Love sick of my cousin sister

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Asked for Male, 24 Years

My sis is suffering from prolonged time depression cause she had a break up with her boyfriend and always stay upset never eat food,she said she needs her boyfriend also saying that her bf is her medicine but her bf did not love more to her and yesterday she took 15 saridon tabs by once and currently under observation in hospital,so how to overcome from this situation as she is having suicidal thoughts, depression and many more.Pls suggest me how to get cure from this love sickness,we are so much of worried for her.Thank you waiting for valuable answer

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Ms. Pratishtha

Psychologist 10 yrs exp Gurgaon

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Hi, Different people have different ideas about love. They might build it with experience or the way they are treated in relationships. Also, could be a part of them. How they know to love. When break up happen, they might also lose the motive and purpose of life.

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When she come back home. Time to time monitoring is required. Talk to her about so many other things in her life. Help her remember her skills and her own value and other important things in her life. Talk about her pain ones or twice in a week. Understand her the way she is. Help her cope the way that she will. She would know that there are other ways and more purpose to life.

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Suicidal or self harm tendencies can be ingrained and it might surface as soon as there is another hurdle. It is very important to work on these thoughts and restructure. Professional will help her and you to identify the root cause and it can be done properly.

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Ms. Megha Sarin

Clinical Psychologist 10 yrs exp Delhi

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I am glad you are so concerned about your sister. I can understand how you are feeling platoon whatever happened with her but i would suggest you need to be strong right now for her. Considering her suicidal attempt i would also want to know if this was her first relationship or has she ever tried to commit suicide earlier?

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considering her current state i would suggest you take her to a psychiatrist first , he or she will start medications and simultaneously you must start psychotherapy sessions with a Psychologist.

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Mr. Riju Raj Roy

Clinical Psychologist 11 yrs exp Hyderabad

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Such self harming behaviour needs psychiatric or medical intervention immediately which your sister is getting. Once her condition gets better, motivate her to consult a psychologist or counselor, who majorly deals with relationships issues. May be that will help her. All the best. Just remember this to shall pass. You can consult us online as well for a detailed session regarding the same.

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Ms. Ananthi

Counselling Psychologist 13 yrs exp Chennai

Hi. Your sister needs to vent her issues. Her depression will grow influenced by various factors. You can take her to psychologist as we can give CBT therapy to understand practical loss and future living with more hope and happiness. She must feel suitable and happy with a psychologist and counselling. Pls dont take chances to just keep at home. She needs depression management and not just medicines or sympathy from friends and relatives.

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Bring her to the clinic.

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Ms. Kavita Sharma (PhD)

Counselling Psychologist 7 yrs exp Udaipur

Thankyou for Sharing your concerne, I appreciate your approaching guidance from professionals to help your Sister! I understand that how difficult for you to see your sister in this condition. Due to breakup in relationship emotions are not stay in balance it's gets hard to accept present. I suggest you to consult with both Psychiatrist and Psychologist to her best.

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Consult with Psychiatrist and Psychologist.

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Ms. Rajatha Sarkar

Psychologist 17 yrs exp Bangalore

Hi dear, I really appreciate your concern to your sister. I am sorry for her situation, I understand most of them feel difficult to overcome the relationship breakup.. It isn't that easy to accept for them, as they will get lot of suggestions from people around. I know at this point of situation she can't go out to relax rather this time(lock down) could be toxic for her. Right now she needs psychiatrist help and also support from the family helping her to cope with the situation. She needs to accept the situation and have to give value for herself, so let her take the guidance from psychologist through counselling and therapy along with the medication from psychiatrist. Involve her in various activities which keep her positive, happiness, calm and reduce the negative thoughts. It's ok if it is for few minutes also. Gradually she can cope up. Take care.

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Visit psychiatrist for guidance and medication.

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Activity, proper routine and lifestyle helps her situation to change.

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Ms. Chellam Narendiran

Psychologist 10 yrs exp Coimbatore

Hi there, Quite a painful situation. Since her mental condition is quite alarming you can take the help of a psychiatrist. Along with that seek personal relationship counselling which will help her to accept the reality and value herself more.

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Book an appointment with psychiatirst

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1) You can delete the physical memories in the phone or in any other form.

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Ms. Seema Jathar

Counselling Psychologist 3 yrs exp Pune

Hello Going through break up can be very painful for some people. Though the relationship is over. Some thoughts some feelings can still be unreaolved. She need to start with therapy sessions to resolve it.

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Take an appointment with psychologist and start therapy sessions

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Ask her to write down her negative thoughts.

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Rashi Anand

Counselling Psychologist 15 yrs exp Mumbai

Hello. Recovering from heart break can be particularly difficult for some people. While the relationship may be over, their mind cannot accept that reality and hence they think it's impossible to move on. Firstly if she has made a suicide attempt, then there is need for psychiatric intervention. As a family, consider the relationship as an addiction, and when out of it, there are bound to be some sort of withdrawal symptoms, which makes the healing process slower. She will need to get started on a psychological counseling & therapeutic plan, that can help deal with the emotional pain, and guide her systematically in managing her stressors, as well as moving on.

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Seek an appointment with a Psychiatrist (if not already seen at the hospital currently) Reach out to a psychologist, and begin counselling to work on her emotions, self esteem & post-breakup challenges.

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Ms. Kshipra Pathrikar

Clinical Psychologist 9 yrs exp Mumbai

Dear, Break up are always very painful. A person who went through a breakup can experience a whole range of difficult feelings. It is very important at this phase to address those feelings and help her change her thinking pattern. It’s very important for her to rebuild her self imagine and to over come this pain.

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I request you to consult a psychiatrist for medication and side by side Counseling sessions for her. Counseling will help her overcome her depression and will also help her overcome the breakup pain.

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1. For time being Please make sure to take proper care of her and keep her happy as much as needed. 2. Ask her to practice meditation. 3. Ask her to maintain a daily journal where she can write about her thoughts. This will help the psychologist to help her evaluate her thoughts. Thank you. Please take care

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Ms. Hema Sampath

Psychologist 18 yrs exp Bangalore

My dear loving and caring brother, Let her come home and suggest her to seek a professional help to overcome this situation calmly.

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You can ask her to contact me for the support

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