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Husband Doesn't want to have child at al
My husband is so admant that he doesnr want to have a child in his life and take tat as responsibility I want to convince him but couldn't pls advise
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I can understand how hard it must be for you but the best solution to your problem is to seek marriage counseling. This will help you address your issues in an effective manner.
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You need to stand up for your decision at the present situation as soon as possible. If not you need to go for counselling services at the earliest. If need any help just get in touch on online practo consultation for further assistance.
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Good day Friend. I can understand your concern.
You both need a counselling to understand and set the expectations. Forcing will not work here. It's better understand his mindset and reasons before giving any generic advice.
Be positive. You both will be alright.
First convince him for a counselling session , else you take first.
Feel free to reach me online for further assistance.
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Hi. Require full history of her husband. Take him to nearby orphan homes or child day care centres. Have a pet at home alternatively. Arrange small get togethers with common friends who can support you both. Talk to other family members.
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Couple Counselling
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You both need to discuss your points. Communicate with your partner & then come to conclusion. Accept, understand & give value to each other's opinion.
http://www.wisdomcounselingpsychotherapyclinic.com
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You should go for marital Counseling session.it may find out the proper reason and help you.
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I feel your husband having some fear or some other reasons to avoid kid i think he have some medical /biological issues better ask him to consult any sexologist as well mental health care person for open. Don't force him to do anything just feel free and admit him his own way be friendly be open. Now a days medical world are changed a lot and very advanced too. First i don't want to make any conclusion sit and talk then go to counselling part.. Solutions are in your hands. Nothing is impossible in this world. All is well hope you will get a solution soon.. Handle everything with your good smile.. Success will be with you always.
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Hi, it looks like you are feeling stressed about your husband not wanting to have a child. It also looks like you are feeling anxious and helpless about the situation.
Do not worry there is help available you can talk to a Counselor and share your feelings.
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Feel free to reach out for a Counseling session
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Ms. Nikeeta Shah
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Pune
Hey! In a marriage, it's sometimes difficult to stay on the same page. Yet, for the partner who is ready to move to another level, waiting becomes extremely difficult as well as exhausting. I'd suggest first talking to a therapist individually, processing your emotions around it, and looking at husband's perspective would be a good start. I'm sure things will turn out to be good if both of you are aware of each other's intention as to having a baby.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
One of you need to accept the others opinion ultimately..
Who is going to be that person is the challenge for both of you..
It is indeed difficult to accept and to get convinced for both of you for each others opinion..
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Perhaps, you both could seek a professional support to get a clarity and understanding..
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For more information and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Dr. Yakata Sharma (PhD) (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Pune
Hello there! The information provided here is insufficient. However, figure out the actual reason behind your husband's thought process. Try to clear his misconceptions associated with becoming a parent.
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If there is some biological issue then consult a sexologist, if psychological then consult a mental health professional
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