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How can I deal with my husband?
My in laws are not accepting me. They are always trying to separate me and my husband. They use to torture me in my husband's absence. As my husband is a mumma's boy and loves his mother very much (he is their adopted child) they always uses this as a weapon to destroy our relationship..... They are doing brain wash of my husband. As a result now a days my husband has become very don't care about our marriage our personal life. He is not giving me time.... He is not mentally wanting me in his life and also not having any physical relation..... My marriage is 1 yr 4 Months old...... From the day 1 I am watching my husband is not interested in our physical relationship..... I don't want any divorce or separation. I only want my husband's presence in our relationship..... Now how can I save our relationship?
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Couple counseling is advised
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Hi, Consult a psychologist for couple counseling
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U cannot opt for family counseling n couple counseling. .
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Hi,
It's clear that you're facing significant challenges in your marriage due to interference from your in-laws and your husband's lack of emotional and physical presence. Saving your relationship will require open communication with your husband about your feelings and concerns. Setting boundaries with your in-laws is crucial to protect your marriage. Couples therapy can provide a safe space to address underlying issues and rebuild your connection. Prioritize spending quality time together and nurturing emotional intimacy. Additionally, seeking individual therapy for yourself can help you cope with the stress and uncertainty you're facing. Saving your relationship will take time, effort, and mutual commitment, but with patience and support, it's possible to overcome these challenges together.
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It's important for you to attend both couple therapy and individual therapy. This will provide better clarity in your relationship and help you create a stronger bond with your husband through shared activities.
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Hi,
I can understand how your relationship with other people in the house can end up impacting your mental health.
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I would recommend that you take individual as well as couples therapy sessions, to work on issues together.
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You can take a consult with me
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Hi
Thanks for reaching out. Your in laws are not treating you well and it is affecting your relationship with your husband. Your husband is not giving you time and there is no intimacy. You are not getting support from in laws and husband and this is a difficult situation to be in. You want to enjoy good moments with your husband and have peace of mind. Consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through. You can book a consultation with a psychologist first and later on if possible you can convince your husband to do counselling.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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You both need to take couple therapy. If only you take, it won't make much of a difference. Convince him to take couple therapy. Sometimes third person's neutral perspective is needed. This situation is not very easy to be in, I can understand how painful it must be for you but asking a question here and getting one answer for it will never change anything. There's no 1 answer. There can be many.
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Consider taking professional help/therapy/counselling. It will definitely help. Video consultations are as powerful as face to face sessions. There's hardly any difference
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You can also try to talk to a mutual friend or a friend of your husband or husband's relative who you can trust and who your husband looks up to. He can listen to that person for now. But this pattern of his needs to break and for that couple therapy is needed.
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Dr. Rakhi Anand (PhD)
Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Delhi
Dear User,
It sounds like a challenging situation for you. You may seek support from a psychologist to help with this challenging dynamic. Try to communicate openly with your husband about your feelings. You may also encourage him to attend counseling sessions together to strengthen the relationship and address issues. Prioritize self-care and seek professional guidance to overcome these obstacles.
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Consulting a Psychologist for individual and joint sessions
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Communication, session with a Psychologist, self care
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Ms. Sanjana Dugad
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Pune
Given your situation, I recommend seeking couples counseling to figure out how to meet on a middle ground. Being in a relationship requires a lot of work on both ends and it generally takes time to adjust to the presence of a new person in their life. I would also recommend getting individual therapy as that can help to bring clarity about what your wants or needs are and how to address them.
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Reach out to a couples therapist and a psychologist
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Ms. Shivangi Gupta
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4 yrs exp
Delhi
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We understand this must be difficult for you. It could be extremely challenging and must be taking a toll on your mental health.
You could go for therapy, during sessions you could work on coping mechanisms, boundary setting etc. Meanwhile, you could also try marriage counselling. It will help you and your partner to understand each other in a health way which could save your marriage too.
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