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Husband domination
I was married for 4yrs my husband didn't talk to my parents. He won't come to my home. I should come alone and should go alone.its an arranged marrge .he is selfish he won't allow me to talk to my parents. He won't allow me to attend or talk to my family. It's been 6months I'm at mother's home he didn't come to me but calling me to come .I should go to my husband or should I stay at my home till he comes. Please suggest .I'm 31 years old I worried of my future.
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Try to give importance to this marriage
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Marriage is comprised of many things. Both yours and his attitudes and beliefs contribute for healthy marriage.
More the differences, more the gap in the relationship.
Beliefs can be adapted from own parents, social environment and past experiences. Through counselling they can be altered to flexible and healthy ones.
Talk to a Psychologist
Thank you and Take care
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please talk to any relationship counselor
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Couples therapy teaches you how to diffuse disagreements in a healthy way — reasonably and respectfully.
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connect for consult
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What's the root cause ....???
That's very important.
You both need counseling sessions to correct your perception and behaviour.
Connect with an expert counseling psychologist asap.
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Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure it’s tough for you what you’re feeling. It looks like you’re expecting your husband to behave in a certain way and you aren’t able to get it. It also looks like he isn’t ready to speak about it or change his behaviour about what he is doing because he feels right about it. However, it’s also clear that you feel violated and would want to take a step towards showing him that his behaviour which you were accepting till now isn’t acceptable to you now and you’d probably not accept it any more. Given that you’ve made up your mind, it’d be good to try this out and see how he responds. If he doesn’t, then we will together sit down and process your emotions of rejection and betrayal and not showing up. It’s ok to ask for what you want. You are right in doing what you’re doing! You’re brave! Very few women ask for what they want and it’s refreshing to see women like you take a stand for what you want and what you don’t!
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Book a session with me and we will together understand the problem and navigate a solution. Love and healing ❤️
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A marital relationship includes many dynamics and it becomes a little more complicated as 2 people are bonded together yet having different ways of thinking, learning, understanding and even loving. It would be helpful if you seek counselling as it will help develop perspective and assist you on working on your thoughts and emotions.
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Seek counselling
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Consult a Psychologist /Marriage Counselor both of you to understand each other better and to overcome this issue..
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you might be feeling. It might be hard for you to include your husband to your family and to make him understand that he is also a part of her own family. There might be reasons why your husband is behaving like this.
Don't worry, consult a good psychologist or a therapist for couples counselling as soon as possible.
Both of you can also contact me and I will try to help you. Let's discuss both your issues in detail so that you all can come towards a solution.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You need to figure out why is he behaving in this manner. Is it his attitude or he believes that keeping you close to your parents/family will create problems in his life or your relationship with in-laws. People sometimes have some preconceived notions about marriage based on something they have witnessed around them in the past. It can be changed with Counselling if they are willing to change. But if it is a closely held belief than there is no point in going ahead with trying to change such a relationship. In that case you must think about finding ways to seek financial independence and create a life for yourself alone.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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