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Betrayal by husband
I got betrayed by my husband he is having extra marrital affair with his office colleague both are comfortable with this relationship i heared calls recording in which they were talking about sexual desires or sexual intimacy which my husband ask her to imagine they are having one common frnd on comference call also.. This is the second time i caught my husband red handed with the same girl first time i forgive but this time it is tough as he had exchanged kiss and hugs also..feeling like finish my self i dont undersntd what to to where to go as i have my 6 yr old son also and m bounded with my social responsibilities
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Hi, your husbands behaviour has made you feel upset and disappointed. I know it is an uncomfortable feeling when you discover the truth about your husbands behaviour. You are feeling extremely helpless and upset about the situation. You also feel let-down. You have a six year old son who needs you and you feel you have a responsibility to take care of him. I know what you are going through is tough. It is important to remember that you are a caring person and you want to ensure your son has a good life. You can consult a psychologist and explain about your situation. With counseling sessions you will feel better.
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Consult a psychologist.
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Must be a very difficult time for you but there is always a solution to your problems you can talk to your husband @ both of you can visit a marriage counsellor
try to involve your elder members of the family
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Hi. I'm sorry. For the time talk to your family, friends . Talk to your husband. Discuss about your presence in his life. It's totally decision by both you whether to get separated or holding on the married life. Think of your future independent life raising your son. Gather your energy, hope and motivation
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Interpersonal Therapy
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Dear Friend. You are the person who is suffering because of the behavior of your husband.
Decision has to be taken keeping in mind all the constraints.
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Decision taken in haste always go wrong
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Please connect to a therapist as a professional so that you can exchange your thoughts and feelings and eventually you can get some clarity about yourself and about your future...
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You can connect with me by using the link given below for more details :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You can involve elders in the family to intervene as this is the second time you have caught him. Look for people in the extended family or close friends who can intervene.
Although adultery is not a crime anymore, but it is still a valid ground for divorce with alimony and child's maintenance.
You have to take stand here and be firm on it. The suicidal thoughts you are having is due to your perceived inability to respond to this situation. Once you makeup your mind you will feel better.
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Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist. You will need it to gain necessary strength to deal with this situation.
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Cell: Nine Six Seven One Three Zero Three One Three Four (whatsapp)
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you are going through. You might be feeling so helpless, disappointed, sad as well as confused at the same time. You are not able to make decisions because of your other social responsibilities and boundation.
But do not jump into conclusions without clarity and for that, you need to consult a counsellor.
You can also contact me. You don't need to feel dejected, confused, and helpless. I will help you to reach your decisions.
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