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I have been staying with my parents as I have delivered a child.It has been 4 months that iam staying separately from my husband as he is back to work in another city.Now iam back to my husband's place.On a random day ,i opened his WhatsApp and found that he texted his lady friend atleast once or twice every month and asked where she is and if he can meet her.That lady is also married but in an unsuccessful relationship with her husband.My husband also asked her that he has tickets for a movie pre release event and can she join him.I love him and respect him a lot and same is with him.We have seen so many ups and downs together and we stood by each other like rocks.Even after all this why did my husband do this? Did he do it because he was alone in that city and needed a company? I feel like asking him but can't disclose that i checked his phone and can't hurt him.what should i do now...pls advice this is all very disturbing as i love him and always been loyal to him.
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Your husband is texting his lady friend and it is making you feel upset, worried, and anxious. You and your husband have stood by each other during good times and difficult times. You are wondering why your husband is texting his lady friend and you want answers. You are not able to ask your husband about the reason for him texting his lady friend because you don’t want him to know you checked his phone.
Consult a psychologist and explain about your husband texting his lady friend. With a psychologist you can mention if you have noticed a change is his behaviour and how he has been communicating with you lately. Talking to a psychologist will help you feel better.
Do take care of yourself and be kind to yourself.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Mr. Merul Gandhi
Psychotherapist
8 yrs exp
Mumbai
Its better to sit and talk about your concerns with him.
This might give you better understanding of what is the actual scenario.
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consult a marriage counselor
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remember when you talk it should not turn into fight
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