I am quite emotional and sensitive. I had many traumas related love life. Because I have trust issues.I usually got angry and irritated.I am a loving person but in return I barely got love.In my childhood I was a stubborn kinda child and I used to scolded by my parents.At present I m also facing those issues with my parents we have no understanding.My younger bother mumma papa me lives under the same roof but still i feel alienated.They used to say I am not understand, i dont adjust. May be they are right but it hurts me a lot.i never told them about my insecurities, about my failure in love and those struggles. Basically, I had three relationships but no one respected me like I gave them a respect.Then I had break-up and bad memories. Now, after three years someone came into my life but because of my anger issue or some insecurities I made him feel irritated again history repeats I broke up with him too. Past is always behind me. Sometimes I feel like I should die. what to do?
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It looks like certain events of the past is making you feel upset. From what you have mentioned you did not have a happy childhood. You are upset about past relationships not working out. Even now you are not very comfortable at home with your family. Your concern is trust issues. You mentioned that you are a loving person and it is a good quality to have. It will be good if you can feel proud of yourself for being a loving person.
You can talk about the past and the relationships you have had in detail with a psychologist. Do not worry with counseling sessions you will be fine.
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Good day My Friend, I can understand your concern.
You clearly identified where is your problem. i.e Anger.
However again Anger is only an outburst or expression of deep emotional disturbance or stress in your mind. So it's important to address the root cause than just treating only the symptoms.
You need to follow Anger management therapy which will help you to identify your deep emotional gaps and solution to overcome, cope , adjust with day to day stress and slowly improve your perspective to handle people and relationships.
Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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Talk to a therapist..
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I can understand what you might be going through. You might be feeling insecure in your relationships with your loved ones. You might be feeling as if no one understands you and your intentions towards them and that they never try to listen to you or care about you. They don't put attention on you. This might make you more angry and agressive towards others which ultimately hurts them as well as you.Glad that you want to get rid of this problem of yours.
Don't worry, consult a good Therapist or a Psychologist
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can not only discover the reasons behind your problem, but also be able to get your solutions.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be fine. You got this!!
Hi... The root of your issues, especially anger lies in your childhood/parenting. This anger is a result of love and warmth you missed having from your significant others (parents/family).
Your hatred is directed towards self and when someone becomes part of it (self), it gets directed upon them as well.
These issues take time to recover. It will take minimum 1 year of weekly Counselling sessions to get over these issues that are holding you back in your life and your relationships.
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Seek professional help. Start taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist on Weekly Basis.
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