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Love or Attraction
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Ours was a love marriage which was mostly a long distance relationship of 9 yrs, after marriage i feel he loves me , respects and cares also.
But don't know sometimes,if it's love or Attraction i get confused.
Can i know the difference between love attraction?
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Are you sure you not seeking a validation?
And are you projecting your fear and dicord on your partner?
Another question are you really in love Or it's attraction for you?
Because if it was love for you,
This doubt won't be a question for you.
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Its love, love starts with attraction but if its continue for more than 3 -4 months than it will change in to love most of the time.
And you are together for 9 yrs.he loves you care you. Don't doubt.
Be happy.
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If you both have worked it well for 9 years you both should be seriously involved hence we can say it's love.though after marriage equation changes at times due to responsibilities and life commitment but the relationship eventually becomes stronger with time.
Do not get influenced by any negative emotion try to be little easy on yourself .
Attraction is generally physical and short lived love is more of beyond physical looks its the comfort you feel in your partners presence.its unconditional and more accepting of eachother.
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You are blessed ..just count your blessings ..every thing does not require reasoning..some things are only to feel.
Next Steps
counseling
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connect
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi..
I am wondering why this thought came in your mind.
Before answering it, I suggest you to find the source of your thought.
But yes, as per my Viewpoint Attraction doesn't last for 9years..it is love.
Next Steps
Talk to therapist to understand your feelings
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Stop overthinking
Be in present moment
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Dr. Santosh D Dasarwar
Counselling Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Seek counseling sessions immediately.
It will help you to rationalize your perception and decision making process.
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you can contact me on nine zero eight two three two nine seven eight four for further assistance
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Ms. Manasi Tambe
Counselling Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
Hi,
Love has multiple meanings. Love has neither been clearly defined. Attraction on the other hand is something temporary and can fade away or incease. Attraction can be on a physical, emotional, sexual or mental level.
Book a session on practo to know more.
Thanks.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Attraction doesn't last for 9-10 years so it is certainly a warm bond you both share. May be after marriage things are not feeling the way you envisaged, when you were dating (mostly distant) but that doesn't mean it's not love. Our imagination is more powerful than reality. So when we are imagining love or how we'll feel when we are with someone we love, it's always heightened. But when we actually spend time with that person, it may not feel that intense. So it is always best to not anticipate and rather experience it first hand.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Senior Psychologist
Cell: nine six seven one three zero three one three four
Website: https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
App: http://wix.to/fechb08?ref=cl
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