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Respected doctors i love a girl since 10; years we are in madly love but my parents are forcing me to marry another girl as they are saying that the girl is poor and not good looking but I can't live my life without her.My father said to me that if i marry that girl he will commit sucide what should I do should I end my life as i can't ditch her nor i want to hurt my parents
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go for marriage counselling
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Do Yoga and meditation, Go for counselling session
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Hi,It is not easy to satisfy both parties.You need to make a decision.lf you are financially independent and want to spend the rest of your life with this girl you should convince your parents.lf you have problems in decision making you need to consult a psychologist for help.
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Hi ,
I understand what you are going through, to guide you through this and manage your feelings consult a Psychologist.
You know your parents better , you are in a relationship for ten years knowing you would have to make this decision, so you have to manage this now and persuade - convince them while respecting and understanding their reasoning .
You can assure your parents that you take responsibility for your actions. You have solutions as back up plans if any issues arise in the marriage.
Give them time to come around to your point of view, they have your best interests at heart .
A Psychologist will be able to help you after understanding all the underlying reasons .
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Connect with psychologist to resolve inner conflicts
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counseling
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Do consult a therapist either online or offline to get a clarity..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... People make choices in life based on what matters to them the most. If your parents are a priority to you, you must communicate it to your partner that you cannot go against them. But if this girl is a priority to you than communicate it very clearly to your parents that you are going marry her irrespective of anything. Once they know your clear choice, they will be in a better position to make their own. And be rest assured, no one is going to die in this situation. Neither you, nor your parents, and probably not even your partner. This is a conflict of interest in a web of relationships. Everyone is trying to exercise their will to preserve their interests. No one is foolish enough to loose their lives over it. People who are that intense do not give warnings. They just do it. Based on your above description, I don't think you are going to marry this girl you loved. Instead you are most likely to give-in to your parents demands and make a compromise. I am being very straight here because I know how important it is to listen to clear words in such situations. I only suggest you to make a decision and communicate is very clearly to both parties. Your lack of decision making will only enhance this conflict.
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Interpersonal Relationship Counselling and Personal Guidance is required.
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