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I m feeling depressed.

I m in love with guy he showed he also likes me but he never did. He was interested in me fr sex only. I got physically involved with him after tht I confessed my feelings to him. Now he is avoiding me totally. I m feeling being used. Please help. I m not able to get him out of my mind.still hv strong feelings for him. I know he is not into me but I can't help myself. Please help
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Dr. Snigdha Mishra Delhi | Counselling Psychologist
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Hello,

Your helplessness and difficulty in moving on is understandable.. What choice do you really have here but to move on???

It's recommended that you take immediate help from a trained psychotherapist near you. She/ he can help you with skills to move on from your past. can also guide you into feeling better and reducing your emotional upset.

If there is none in your area, you can take help from someone who does therapy online. Please feel free to get in touch personally and someone from my office will guide you to a good therapist near you.

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Ms. Hema Sampath Bangalore | Clinical Psychologist
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Tell me what do u want from him. Love.... Care...... Attention! !!!

Do u think u will get from him???

If u r longing for a live and care which u r missing  from ur family maybe,  should not spoil yourself in an illusionary world of only expectations and not reality.

For more clarity and to take better decision about ur life Di visit a Psychologist.

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Dr. Lakshmi T Rajan Chennai | Counselling Psychologist
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Dear friend,

First of all you should accept the reality. He was not interested in you right from the beginning. You know that. So, accept the reality.
Feel free to contact for further help.
Wishes.

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Dr. Kavita Sagarkar Mumbai | Psychiatrist
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Hi, l can understand your feelings of being cheated. Remember, this is not the end of the world! Your guy will not come back to you by your crying or feeling bad. You need to be able to forget him and move on...that is better for you and you have to understand that he is not the only one in the world.
One negative experience does not define you. You can definitely come out of this . You may need 2-3 counseling sessions for the same. With counseling you will understand that you can rid yourself of the past rather than carry it's baggage. Once your confidence is back you will have to learn to look into a future with someone else who is worth sharing your life with. Look at it this way, atleast you have realised his true nature before taking any major step like marriage .....
Please consult a Psychiatrist who specialises in counseling or a Psychologist with counseling experience.
Hope this helps, All the Best!
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