My husband is not interested in me emotionally and physically.he remains busy in his life and work .we don't share anything to eachother now...I ask him the reason that why he never ask me for lovemaking but he doesn't answer anything. Pls help how to survive in this emotional less and sexless marriage.
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Hi. Both of you need counseling. What's your educational level. You can think of your own career. See, now a days there is huge job stress and competition. A lot of chances of losing energy. Require info on marriage process. If in laws are present discuss this with them. Age differences sometimes create barrier in couple communication.
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Spend time in developing yourself as an independent person first. Do regular yoga, meditation, music listening ( piano, guitar), art making, video making etc. Be creative from your side. Invite friends and arrange small party at home. I am sure your husband may join.
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During dinner time try to spend time together. Write sms every day to him and convey your feelings and thoughts through sms. Good luck
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Take marital therapy if he agrees
How long have you been married
When did changes in your sex life started showing up
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counselling
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I can understand the pain You tbrough by being in this relationship..
I suggest you both to Consult with a Marriage Counselor and resolve the issues between you both..
It may be included many reasons. Communication gap, Work stress, Erectile disfunction any many more. Need to consult for Marital and couple counseling. U will be alright after one month. Aldabedt
This may be difficult for you, though the fact that you are coming for support on Practo reflects you want to come out of this situation or change the situation. I cannot guarantee if the situation will change. Though your approach on how to handle and cope with it may change.
You could share more details about the tome line of the issue , what triggered the change .
Try couple Counselling and if he may not be interested you can reach out to empower your self
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Counselling will definitely help you with a right therapist you will feel more confident and empowered
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