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Hello , I am in an abusive relationship since last 6 yrs. The guy controls me like for eg - you should not go to a parlour bcoz i dont like. Share your location for 24hrs coz i want to see. He keeps checking my Instagram profile- how many of my followers have increased. He doesn't put any effort in the relationship. He stays at a walkable distance of 20 mins and has not met me in the 7 months since his parents are strict i understand but.. putting zero effort- what does that mean? My friends disapprove of my relationship. I want to get out of it. It has become like a trauma bonding. He has become my addiction. Please suggest what to do! I really wanna be happy! I deserve to be 😔
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You need to improve your perception and decision making skills to grow in your life.
It can be well corrected with counseling sessions.
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I get that you feel you are in an abusive relationship. And the major part is you will require to come out of this toxic relation which you are habituated to.
There are many ways to let go of things and habits when we want to do it really
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let's get motivated and feel free to get connected to me. we will talk through this and get some insight on how to get through this
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Hi. Yes absolutely, you sometimes should think about yourself. Live independently. In relationship, some sort of male authoritarianism will be there. You need more time in taking life decisions.
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patience
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Hi you know that it is an abusive relationship then you need to work with yourself to get out of it & to be happy. Just observe what makes you to addict to him. Focus on yourself, love yourself, give care for yourself. Book appointment with me via practo.
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You have been in an abusive relationship for six years and it looks like he is very controlling. He is not giving you the space to do what you want to do. It looks like he even has control over your social media account. You mentioned that you want to be happy and yes you deserve to be happy. Your friends don’t have a good opinion of him. You have become addicted to the relationship. In order to know what to do it is important to think about your safety and happiness. You mentioned that you want to get out of the relationship. A psychologist will guide you on how you can get out of the relationship and be happy.
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Consult a psychologist.
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Feel free to contact me for counseling session.
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Good day My Friend, i can understand your concern.
A god relationship needs a minimal of Love, affection, Give & Take, Trust, Acceptance , communications, understanding etc.
If you don't see most of these qualities, then it not going to last long. You have a choice to either work on it, if both the partners understand the value of these and agree to rebuild or, better stay away.
To cope with such suitation or make your mind strong to take right decision, better take a counselling help.
Be positive . You will be alright soon.
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Feel free to reach me online for further assistance.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you are going through. You might be feeling frustrated as you are not able to move on or you don't know how to go forward with it. But one thing is clear that now you don't want to be in this relationship. I get it that it's very difficult to disconnect with a bond that is 6 years long now. And as you said that it's become your addiction.
Consult a Psychologist or a Counsellor.
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your solution. Don't worry, you got this!
Take care and stay safe
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Ms. Swapnil Srivastava
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Delhi
Hello.. yes you deserve to be happy. I understand what you are going through, but now this is the time to take your decision and then stick to your decision. I believe you've analysed each and every aspect very well so you know what is good for you and for your healing consult a psychologist.
Stay happy and healthy
Take care
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Mr. Vijay Kumar
Counselling Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
It is quite evident that you are, as felt by you, in an abusive relationship. The larger issue right now is how you can get out of it. I feel that it is entirely on you to take a decision on it and to execute it. Breaking away from an abusive relationship too is going to be painful. Yet you will have to face it with whatever boldness you can muster. Please remember that the situation leaves hardly any hope of improvement in the future. The emotional pain the break up is going to give you will be a passing phase. If you find it difficult to accept a break up emotionally all by yourself, please consult a psychologist and get guided.
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Please consult a psychologist if necessary.
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Bangalore
Dear, it's time you start giving importance to yourself. If you need help, plz book a session with Counseling Psychologist.
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You deserve happiness, freedom but you need to take your remote control back to yourself.
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