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Should I sacrifice my happiness and my wishes for my parents? Should I tell everything to parents whatever I do and go? My parents won't believe and trust on me. I also won't trust on my parents.
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Hi. Maintain communication with parents. Live your private life as well. Deal people individually as per your communication level. Add rather lose people in life.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you might be going through. Sometimes we think of sacrificing and adjusting for the sake of our parents or loved ones. But if it is something big that you are thinking of sacrificing, then do not do it now. Take out all the other possibilities, pros and cons before taking any decision.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solution.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You are in a dilemma because you are facing an approach- avoidance conflict. On one hand you don't want to let go your own happiness, that you believe lies in being in that relationship. And on the other hand you want to keep your parents approval and acceptance of this relationship as it matters to you a lot. There are no right and wrong choices in such scenarios. You just need to choose what matters to you the most and what decision you will be able to defend for a longer period of time. Also, if this amounts to getting married, it will be better to look at it in terms of what kind of life you want to live rather than thinking it in terms of a moral conflict.
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Ms. Muthulakshmi
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4 yrs exp
Chennai
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There is no need to sacrifice your happiness and wishes. But at the same time maintain a healthy communication with your parents. If there is any misunderstanding between you and your parents, try to resolve the problem.
If you need, you can consult with a Psychologist and discuss about your problems.
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