It's being nearly 8 months since most of us have been working from home. I know work from home with kids around is not at all easy, you got to manage so many things. It is important to have a quiet workspace to accomplish your goals for the day and all this can only happen if you are able to minimize distractions at home. To many of us, this may sound like a difficult task with kids around, especially when they themselves are undergoing such a huge change in their routines, thus they definitely need our support and the last thing they need right now is our scolding.  

So it is important to get our children to comply with our work goals. Let's have a look at how you can find a distraction and noise-free workspace where you are able to reach goals and respond well to your kids at the same time.


Plan out activities in advance not only for your own work but also for your children. Make a list of activities for them to do during your work hours. Make this plan with your children, involve them in it if they are old enough to understand. You also need to communicate how you as a family need to work together in this. 

Write down the schedule, you may even decorate it with your children and paste it at a place where it can be seen easily. You can also start giving tokens or stars to your children for following the schedule this can act as a reinforcer. If you have toddlers then you can plan your work according to their schedule, keep a fixed routine for their nap time, eating time, and playtime, this way you will know when they need you the most. 


For younger kids, you can set up a play corner with a colorful mat and some of their favorite toys. For some older children, you can set up a book corner. Basically, the idea is to keep their activities planned in advance. This also includes preparing their snacks in advance. It doesn't have to be fancy snacks anything that's quick and healthy would do.


Plan short breaks in between your work if possible. In these breaks, you can give attention to your children. You can think of taking breaks after 30-45 minutes of work as children usually have a short attention span. This break can be as short as 10 mins. The idea is to give your mind some relaxation and also to keep your children informed in advance about your break timings, setting a timer can help so that they know when you will get free.


If you have help at home, you and your partner can divide work and home responsibilities. Have it sorted well in advance, divide home tasks equally. Set specific roles that are well discussed in advance. These roles need to be communicated to your children as well so that they know whom to approach for which work. Moreover, this way you will also model good teamwork to your children so that they understand that no work is gender-specific, and of course seeing their parents work together is a happy sight for children. 


This sounds like a tough one specifically for parents of adolescent children but you can turn it into fun. Dedicate responsibilities to your older children and make sure to be consistent with it. They may take a day or two but if they see it's undone they will do it. For toddlers, turn housework into a play activity and tell them to assist you, they’ll love it (for eg, while drying clothes take them with you and assign a small task like handing the clothes to you). This way you won't have to juggle between going behind them and doing house chores.


Do not forget to take out some me-time even if it’s as short as 30 mins per day. This is your time and do not feel guilty about it. Plan it according to your child's schedule. You may even make a special corner in your house for this where you can sit and just relax and engage in your favorite activities. Your me-time is important to help maintain your happiness which will definitely make you more productive and energetic.


There must a separate family playtime for children in your schedules. This will ensure some fun and also make your children feel secure and more prepared to let you complete your work during office hours. You can play board games or color, paint or have some storytime with them. Please remember to keep your mobile phones away during this time, just like work requires undivided attention so does playing with children.


We as parents tend to feel guilty over everything from not cooking enough for our children to not giving them enough time. Don't feel guilty, we are not superhumans and are allowed to make mistakes. We should not engage in comparison with other parents on social media and must remember that all parents do their best for their children, so no guilt trips please.

In a nutshell, small things like planning in advance, making a play area for your children, taking short breaks, dividing responsibilities, engaging children in housework, and ensuring playtime with children post work will definitely make our lives easier. This will also make our children more structured and independent. Also, let's not forget to pamper ourselves for doing a great job daily. Let this quarantine help us build our children and of course us into stronger individuals.