DOES THIS HAPPEN TO YOU?
You get very sad if your loved one didn’t pay attention to something which you have done only for him/her to notice…
You get irritated if your mother didn’t understand your point of view…
You get angry if your father didn’t support you…
You get depressed if your best friend didn’t give a listening ear when you needed it…
You get demotivated if your boss criticises you for your work…
WHY?
HAVE YOU GIVEN A THOUGHT ABOUT WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN WITH YOU?
Reason is simple…
WE EXPECT OTHERS TO DO THE THINGS FOR US, WHICH WE DENY TO OUR OWN SELVES!
Think…
When we expect our lover to pay attention to us, do we have given enough attention to ourselves?
When we expect our mother to understand us, do we understand ourselves?
When we expect our father to support us, do we support ourselves?
When we expect a listening ear from our best friend, do we have listened to ourselves truly?
When we expect our boss to praise us, have we praised ourselves for anything till now?
IF THE ANSWER IS “NO”, THEN MY FRIENDS WE ARE BOUND TO FALL FOR ALL THE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS I HAVE QUOTED ABOVE…
We are giving this job of “loving us” to the other people when we are not doing anything for ourselves…
If you need attention, attend yourself.
If you want understanding, understand yourself.
If you need a support, support yourself.
Love yourself…Praise yourself…Listen to yourself…Hug yourself…Approve of yourself…& SEE THE MAGIC!