Hush..hush… do we really need to talk about a tabooed subject in our society? Well yes, sometimes, topics like watching porn which are less talked about and swept under the rug can create havoc in your married life and can directly impact your marital stability.
1. It can weaken you bond with your partner and create trust issues. Watching porn in front of your partner is less-appreciated. Your wife will never like if you get turned on watching another woman in a video and vice-versa and it will obviously give rise to suspicion and mistrust.
2.It can lead you to have unrealistic expectations form your partner. Porn is a script that actors follow and perform. There is nothing real about porn, they are just playing with your psyche or maybe I should say screwing up your psyche.
3. A single comment on comparison of your partner with the porn star can lead to lot of conflicts in the relationship. It is little impossible to go without having some sort of comparison of one image to other and it can slip out of your tongue in some or the other way. Your partner can take an offense and be really hurt. They might even get hypersensitive and have body image issues which can lead to avoidance of intimacy and sex.
4. Watching porn can be addictive just like drugs. Porn is addictive. Anyone who tells you it isn't is wrong. Studies show that porn lights up the pleasure center of the brain more than cocaine. It's powerful and it's very addictive.5. Not to forget, porn creates dissatisfaction in your sex life and increases chances of infidelity. Partners watching porn together may sound cool but is not very rewarding in long run. It can lead to erectile dysfunction in men and also lead them to have affair with other women or find their wife less attractive overtime.
If you are having trouble in your married life or if you relate to the points above you can be suffering from the flip side of watching porn and should seek help immediately!!