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Social Anxiety
Hello Doctor, I have had anxiety since high school, and it has gradually worsened. I experience a fast heartbeat, hand tremors, stomach discomfort, and my mind goes blank during conversations. This happens around classmates, my roommate, girls, confident people, presentations, and interviews. I also become anxious before my roommate arrives. I avoid social situations, including walking on streets where I might meet neighbours or people I know. Sometimes I take a vehicle even to a nearby shop to avoid talking to them. I don't have these symptoms when I'm alone or with close family and friends. Could this be Social Anxiety Disorder? What can I do to overcome this? Would CBT or medication be appropriate? Thank you
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Hi, thank you for sharing this. Based on what you’ve described, your symptoms are consistent with Social Anxiety Disorder, but a proper assessment by a mental health professional is needed to confirm the diagnosis. The good news is that social anxiety is highly treatable. CBT is one of the most effective treatments, helping you identify anxious thoughts and gradually face feared social situations through structured exposure. Medication may also be helpful if your symptoms are severe or significantly affecting your daily life, and a psychiatrist can guide that decision. A small first step is to stop avoiding every situation. Start with one low-anxiety social interaction each day and stay in it until your anxiety begins to reduce instead of escaping. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.
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This describes a fast heartbeat, hand tremors, stomach issues, and going blank around peers and presentations. These symptoms heavily align with Social Anxiety Disorder and panic-like reactions.
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You can consult Dr. Rupali Mohbe, a licensed clinical psychologist. Book an online or offline session based on your comfort via the official website, BIRDYME.Clinic Address: 208, CENTRAL, Sangath IPL, Motera, Ahmedabad, Gujarat.
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When your mind goes blank, look around and spot 5 things you can see, 4 you can touch, and 3 you can hear. This grounds you instantly.
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Hi. Yes. This is social anxiety. Therapy and medicines can help. Consult online for treatment. Alternatively you can search Google for dr. Shailaja Bandla , Psychiatrist for contact information
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To answer your diagnostic question directly: Yes, your symptoms align classicly with Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) / Social Phobia. What you are describing—a long-standing fear of negative evaluation that triggers severe autonomic arousal (fast heartbeat, tremors, GI distress, cognitive "freezing" or mind going blank) around peers, authority figures, or during performance situations—is the clinical hallmark of social anxiety. The fact that these symptoms vanish when you are alone or with trusted family/friends further confirms that this is driven by social threat evaluation, rather than a generalized anxiety or physical medical condition. Regarding treatment: Both Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and pharmacotherapy are evidence-based, highly effective first-line interventions for Social Anxiety Disorder, and using them together often yields the best outcomes.
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Consult a Psychiatrist for Comprehensive Clinical Assessment: Schedule an evaluation with a psychiatrist to confirm the diagnosis and discuss medical management options: SSRIs / SNRIs (First-Line Daily Medication): Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (such as Escitalopram, Sertraline, or Paroxetine) help regulate serotonin signaling, lowering overall baseline anxiety and autonomic reactivity over time. Beta-Blockers (Performance Support): Short-acting beta-blockers (like Propranolol) taken on an "as-needed" basis before high-stress social events (interviews, presentations) block peripheral adrenaline, preventing tremors, racing heart, and sweating. Initiate Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Work with a licensed clinical psychologist on CBT tailored for social anxiety. Therapy focuses on: Cognitive Restructuring: Identifying and challenging automatic catastrophic thoughts (e.g., "I will embarrass myself" or "They will judge me"). Graded Exposure Therapy: Gradually and safely placing yourself in social situations to retrain your brain's threat response and break the cycle of avoidance. Rule Out Physical Co-factors: Ask your doctor to check basic laboratory parameters (such as thyroid function tests and Vitamin B12 levels) to ensure no underlying physical issues are compounding your physical anxiety symptoms. You can book a session with me
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Avoidance is the engine that keeps social anxiety alive. Taking a vehicle to avoid walking past neighbors or skipping events provides immediate short-term relief, but it signals to your brain that the social situation was genuinely dangerous, reinforcing the anxiety response for the future. Practice "Grounding" During Mind-Blanking Moments: When your mind goes blank in conversations, focus on physical grounding: press your feet firmly onto the floor, focus on the sensation of air entering your nostrils, and allow yourself a 3-second pause to breathe out before speaking. Set Small, Daily Exposure Goals: Start with micro-steps—such as making eye contact and saying a brief "hello" to one shopkeeper or neighbor each day—to build confidence before tackling larger social settings.
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Here’s a concise and professional version: CBT is highly effective in helping individuals manage social anxiety by addressing unhelpful thought patterns and gradually building confidence in social situations. Consulting a psychiatrist is also recommended, as they can provide a comprehensive evaluation and, if needed, medication alongside therapy for better outcomes. – Ruhi Jain, Psychologist
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Start with small, manageable social interactions instead of avoiding them. Practice diaphragmatic breathing (inhale for 4 seconds, exhale for 6 seconds) for 5–10 minutes daily and before anxiety-provoking situations. You can also maintain an anxiety journal to note your anxious thoughts, the evidence for and against them, and a more balanced perspective. These strategies can complement CBT and help reduce anxiety over time.
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Based on your description, Social Anxiety Disorder is a strong possibility, but a proper psychiatric evaluation is needed to confirm the diagnosis and rule out other conditions. Since your symptoms have persisted for years and are significantly affecting your daily life, CBT is the first-line treatment, and medication (such as an SSRI) may also be beneficial depending on the severity. With the right treatment, most people experience significant improvement. Please consult a psychiatrist to discuss the best treatment plan for you.
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Yes, this is a Social Anxiety Disorder (Social Phobia)
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CBT and SSRIs are the main treatments.
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Thank you for reaching out and for sharing your concerns. It takes courage to seek help. Based on what you've described, your symptoms need a detailed evaluation. And yes there is possibility of social Anxiety disorder. The good news is that these concerns are often treatable with the right approach, which may include therapy, lifestyle changes, and medication if required. I would recommend a comprehensive psychiatric assessment rather than self-diagnosis. If you'd like to discuss your symptoms in detail and receive a personalized treatment plan, you can book an online consultation through link. https://topmate.io/drarchana_agarwal/ Wishing you good health and recovery.
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