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My husband never ask for sex
My husband never ask for sex its been 8 months 5 min erections is it normal he never kiss me also is its performance anxiety
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Hi, I am sorry that you’re feeling this way. I am sure this is tough. I can see that you’re feeling rejected in this situation. I can also see that you are not able to ask your husband for sex. Sexual desire is different for different people. We will have to look at this in therapy and take it forward.
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Book a session with me and I will take it forward. Love and healing ❤️
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Your concern is you are not able to enjoy intimacy in your marriage. It will be good if you talk to your husband about it. I understand you want to have a good sexual relationship with your husband. It is necessary to know if your husband is stressed about something or if he is suffering from job burnout. Healthy communication with your husband will help determine the reasons for lack of interest in sex. If you are not able to talk to your husband about the reason for his lack of interest in sex consult a psychologist.
To feel better consult a psychologist and explain about your personal life. Do not worry counselling sessions will help you. You will require individual counselling and Couples therapy whichever is convenient for you.
Do take care of yourself and be kind to yourself.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Hi,
This is one of the most important communication to ask about the comfort of partner related to sex and intimacy. You are absolutely right and it's very difficult to have sex in this situation.
It is necessary to talk about your relationship with your husband in a correct way and a psychologist/Family therapist can help you to make a better communication and relationship.
It's your right to talk about your comfort, so please consult with a psychologist/therapist as soon as possible.
Do take care.
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focuses on cultivating communication and interpersonal effectiveness skills..it will help in knowing the cause for it .take counseling session to learn and deal with it more effectively
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counseling
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connect with psychologist
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Hi
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Interpersonal Therapy
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Lot of couples these days face such issues. This idea of a great sexual life is more media/social media created, most couples learn about each other's preferences and likings over time.
Need to ask few questions:
1. Did you guys dated before marriage or was it an arranged marriage?
2. Is he living under lot of stress (personal/professional)?
3. Did you guys ever spoke about your past history (romantically/sexually)?
Intimacy is a two way street. A couple has to develop a certain level of emotional and mental closeness to be able to share and explore their sexuality. This idea of men always being ready for the act, is not true. Some people are more sexual than others but it's hardly based on gender.
In this particular case, I believe there is a gap (mental) between you two and it is inhibiting you both to explore your sexual life together.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Couple Therapy or Psychosexual Guidance and Counselling is required.
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Cell: nine six seven one three zero three one three four
Website: https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
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Ms. Mohana Priya G
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
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Take counselling sessions
Interpersonal therapy and couple counselling will help you to maintain your healthy relationship.
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