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I am so disturbed..
Continuously thinking about my future.. i am getting fear that am i living with a selfish man or not.. i am so confused.. i am struggling to take further decision bcoz i have 5years daughter.. and i am a working woman.. pls suggest me...
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It seems like you are anxious about the future. It will help you if you talk about what is making you feel confused and anxious with a psychologist. I understand you are confused about certain things. Do not worry about being confused talking to a psychologist will help you.
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It seems you’re worried about your future because of your partner. You’re in dilemma which is causing anxiety and I can sense regret as well. Get professional help to have a better clarity to your understanding
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you might be going through. It might be hard for you to decide about your life further as it is a big step for you and it involves the life of your child too.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solution.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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Ms. Madumitha Selvaraj
Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Chennai
Thanks for reaching out for help. It can be a tiresome thing to think about future with such doubts. We all plan/wish for things in our lives that even though do not pan out the same way should not leave us with regret. I see there are issues with your spouse that needs to be sorted out.
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Please book an online consultation with me or any counselling psychologist of your choice to talk through this. An indecisive mind is not healthy as a parent to a 5 year old too. You will be able to find clarity and also think of couples counselling along with your husband if he can be made to understand your point of view.
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This is the first step towards dealing with your confusing thoughts. They will not resolve overnight. But you are on the way to feeling and thinking better soon.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Few Questions:
1. What makes you think that you are living with a
selfish man?
2. Is your job environment also very stressful/
manipulative?
3. Is it a love marriage or arrange?
4. Did you both shared a good relationship before
or during this 5 year old marriage?
Please do not make conclusions sitting alone and analysing your spouse or your situation. Our mind is such that it can make you believe what you want to believe and it will recall memories/information accordingly.
It is best to speak to your husband about your concerns and you can also seek professional help.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Marital Counselling is required.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Looks like that few questions as doubts, are not answered or you could make any decisions due to those..
To get some clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life do Consult a psychological Counselor personally either online or Offline..
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Ms. Muthulakshmi
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Chennai
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I can understand your problem. Seems like you are worrying about your future. This worry may be a causes of your anxiety. So pls consult with a Psychologist and just discuss about your situation, how it is affecting you constantly. After that you may get a clarity about your decision.
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