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Abusive Marriage
Hello, I had love marriage 12 years ago, since day 1 my husband scolds me, if I ask something he never buys it for me and sometimes he buys something cheaper he doesn't like to spend on me, he has issues with my parents but in front of them he is polite n charming but at home he yells at me like anything, even his own family he has issues with or friends or anyone else he does not show but takes out on me.. I miscarried 2 times because of his yelling.. I can't take it anymore and 2 days ago I tried to leave house so he pulled me from behind, tore my clothes and grabbed me by arm very hard.. when he keeps screaming at me my head pounds n heart races.. I suffer 170/100bp
I'm feeling worthless and no dignity, the man who was supposed to care only yells at me, inspite of it I had physical relationship then too he yelled for some issues regarding my fear of corona.
He never cares of my health, never makes up after fight, never takes me out or never buys me even a book.. I'm stuck
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Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure this is tough. I wonder what’s keeping you staying with him. It’d be nice of you to self reflect on that. Once you self reflect and find an answer, please think about how you can provide yourself with that need that you feel is being fulfilled by him. Once you feel confident about being able to provide yourself with that, you can move out and find a place which is safe for you. These episodes of emotional and physical violence are only going to get worst with times and I wonder if you feel he’s going to change because he hasn’t till now and that’s sad
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Book a session with me and we will work towards ensuring you’re safe and peaceful. You deserve better! Love and healing ❤️
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You both need to undergo couple counseling sessions.
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you can contact me through online appointment for further assistance
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To reduce your stress and manage yourself well seek help of any nearby psychologist or NGO. they will also help you to take right decision.
if it is love marriage then you have taken decision to be with for certain things but that does not bind you forever.
Remember, You are your first priority
Take care and Thank you.
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Hey it is a domestic violence, and can't be ignored. I suggest to take help from the Asara Or another private NGO I think it's choice. They will hep you.
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Counselors and mental health therapists are trained professionals who can find ways to help you cope, reduce the effects of emotional stress, help you feel better and become more functional in your day-to-day activities.it all red flags in your relationship..
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If you feel overwhelmed and can’t manage your emotions and stresses on your own, seek the help of a professional. Don’t stay “frozen” or feeling like you’re holding your breath waiting for your feelings to be over. If you are stuck in a rut and can’t get yourself out, seek professional help.
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Hi,You are undergoing verbal, emotional and physical abuse.Thi is a case of domestic violence.You might have undergone difficult times
You can take some actions
Be calm and try to talk to him about what you feel about his actions.
If he thinks that his actions are acceptable and not likely to be reported and going on with violence call for help.
You can contact National commission of women help line number can be found on Google.
Ask for help.They will contact you.
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Consult a psychologist to deal with stress you are undergoing due to these traumatic experiences.
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Don't be a victim.
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Abusing or torture to any human being is not a good act. And no one can justify it. I suggest first you will ask yourself what you want. In first steps I advice for a marriage counselling. You can go with online or offline. Some time due to environmental issues and limited conversation create such kind of frustrating condition. And after counselling if you feel no changes you can for legal action
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You are feeling extremely upset about the way your husband is treating you. I understand you are going through a difficult time. You are feeling extremely unhappy to an extent that it is affecting your health. Consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through. You can also talk to a lawyer. You can take legal support and reach out to organisations that help women who are going through a difficult time. A lawyer can guide you on steps you can take to protect yourself. Be kind to yourself.
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Ms. Pooja Bhargava
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6 yrs exp
Delhi
You are undergoing a lot of physical and emotional abuse in this marriage. You would benefit from taking counselling to help you gain more confidence so that you can decide what steps to take next
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
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9 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi dear,
I understand you are going through very tough time and you are feeling stuck. Everybody deserve to be happy and respected in relationship.
I understand you are feeling helplessness, worthlessness and its not good for your mental health.
I suggest you to talk to Psycholgist.
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Book a session with Psychologist
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Mental health matters a lot.
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