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Marriage| Age Gap
I am 29 and my marriage has been fixed with a 23 year old girl. We didn't talk much at first , now i sometimes thing that she is not mature enough or a girl should have a career before marrying.Though she has agreed that she wants to continue her education.
This thought of marrying and unemployment younger women is giving me sleepless nights and a lot of anxiety which is not showing its physical symptoms like acne, digestive issues and constant worrying.
What should i do about it ?
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Hi. Accept partner based on qualities apart beauty. Focus on her aim, goals in life. Work career doesn't prove a woman is a mature one. There are phases when a woman can't continue her work life. If she possess good qualities, has interests in academics and is optimistic towards life then go with her...
Fix up preferences for partner , many men prefer immature women...
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Hey, I understand how you feel and how this entire situation is not only disturbing you mentally but as well as physically. Few things to reflect and act upon before you take any decision:
1. Start communicating: I Understand that it would be not easy for you to do this as this moment, but think upon it. The more you openly talk about what you feel will help you to understand her side of the Story.
2. Action taking: After a healthy conversation if you feel things can be worked on good to go, if not is there anything that you can do to make things better, which will make you feel better? If not, it’s a high time to reflect.
Therapeutic sessions here will help you to be aware, resolve your pate issues at a very deeper level, so that when you go ahead with such a crucial decision, you would be sure and willing. You can connect with me to know more.
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To overcome the physical symptoms that are resulting due to anxiety:
1. Drink sufficient water
2. Have a Good Sleep
3. Try to journalise your thoughts.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello there
I can understand what you might be going through. You might be stressed and anxious about your marriage and how will things take place in future with you wife. Don't worry, she wants to continue her education which means that she also might be having ambitions. And don't judge her maturity with her age. I know that before marriage, all these things could come in an individual's mind because their life's about to change after marriage.
In order to understand it more as well as how should you take it and what's the reason that made you this, you need to consult a good Counsellor or a Psychologist
You can also contact me and I will help you towards reaching your solutions. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get a proper guidance towards your decision.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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Ms. Neha Ravichandran
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
Kindly acknowledge and face it . Is it the fear of taking care of another person? You both should seek pre marriage counselling to resolve many unaddressed issues and discussions.
It will help you keep a healthy bond.
She seems open to study and be independent, this looks like a positive sign for you.
Though it would be best if you discuss the things in details. As psychologist will have many questions to ask to understand the core deep level issues .
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Hope you find clarity and motivation in this relationship.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Please speak to your family about this concern of yours. Tell them that you are worried about marrying someone so young and you are unsure about whether to go about this marriage as you are also not ok with your spouse being financially dependent on you.
After sharing your concerns with your own family and based on thier response, you can also talk to this girl about it. These days most couples prefer both working partners, rather than a typical husband working and wife taking care of household kinds.
I am sure she must have some plans and you can also work something out together if possible. Or you guys can delay your marriage for an year or two to be more clear about your financial situation.
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Consult a Psychologist to seek professional help.
Pre-Marital Counselling is required.
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