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Abusive parents
My parents are so toxic and abusive to me both mentally and physically too.They dont treat me well and torcher me by controlling my whole life even now when im a recently graduated working lady.They never understand me or make me feel appreciated.i lost my true love also bcz of them aa they bribed all authorities of the state and ministers too for separating us.Actually he was so loyal and genuine who helped me sending to womans cell when they beaten me so badly and no one was helping me locally too then also everyone like any typical indian society around me gossip behind my back after 3 years that I was going to run away with my lover and that im so impure woman who was against family and rules. I fought them all with my partner yet they still taunt me and hurt me that I feel to complain and beat such people out of stress and too much suffering. I hate indian mindset with traditional orthodox values and those against my sacred feminism.i wish i reunite with my partner and get away.😪
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Very sorry to hear you are going through so much distress. Life can often be unfair and at such times the best thing to do is seek support. Since most friends and relatives are themselves going through their own problems they may or may not be available to provide the support u need. Hence taking sessions from a clinical psychologist can prove to be a boon.
What u need is a connection with yourself so that u don’t depend on others for your happiness or drive to motivation. This connection can be built by looking within and the whole process can be guided through in a therapy session
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Pl connect with me for more understanding. I am a licensed clinical psychologist dealing with these issues on a daily basis.
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The experiences described indicate ongoing emotional trauma due to abuse and coercive control, leading to distress, anger, and feelings of helplessness. These reactions are psychological responses to prolonged stress.
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Consult with me for focused counselling to work on emotional regulation, boundaries, and future clarity.
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Limit triggering interactions, prioritise safety, and focus on self-stabilisation.
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Connect with psychologist to discuss in detail
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Hi,You are an adult and an independent woman.In order to stand for yourself,you need to be emotionally, physically.healthy.Consult a psychologist to deal with the traumatic experience you are understanding.
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We can understand... you are going through a lot.
You seem to be undergoing psychological changes due to non acceptable violent and abusive situations faced by you.
It can be post traumatic psychological changes.
It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Growing up in an environment where you felt controlled, misunderstood, and hurt can leave deep emotional wounds. Losing someone you loved in such circumstances, and then facing judgment from people around you, can make anyone feel angry, helpless, and exhausted. Your reactions do not mean there is something wrong with you; they reflect how much you have been carrying for a long time.
Right now, the most important thing is helping you feel emotionally safer and more grounded. Therapy can support you in processing this pain, understanding your anger without being consumed by it, and gradually building clarity about boundaries, independence, and healing. With the right support, it is possible to regain a sense of control and move toward a life that feels more peaceful and self-directed.
Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.
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Ms. Mrunal Gokhale
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Pune
Hello, I am so sorry to hear that. It must have been so difficult.
My suggestion to you would be to go to a psychiatrist or a psychologist who will help you to deal with your trauma and they will also be able to guide you to deal with your parents with family counselling.
I will also suggest to go see a general physician to help you with your physical hurt.
You can consider both online and offline options to check what suits you the best.
I truly hope that everything works out for you soon.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
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7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hi,
What you are describing is serious emotional and physical abuse, not discipline or concern. Being controlled, beaten, humiliated, isolated, and deprived of the right to choose your own life and relationships is domestic violence, even when it comes from parents. Losing your partner, being publicly shamed, and continuously taunted has caused deep emotional trauma, grief, and anger. Your reactions — distress, helplessness, rage, and the urge to escape — are normal responses to prolonged abuse, not a flaw in you.
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Your safety and independence must come first. If physical abuse is ongoing, it is important to reach out to women’s support services, legal aid, or a trusted NGO again, even if previous attempts were discouraging. Consulting a psychologist or trauma-informed therapist can help you process the abuse, grief, and loss of autonomy. If possible, start planning financial and residential independence, even in small steps. You are legally an adult and have the right to live separately and make your own choices.
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• Abuse does not become acceptable because it comes from family.
• You are not impure, shameful, or wrong for choosing love or independence.
• Try to emotionally disengage from taunts by setting mental boundaries — their words reflect their control, not your worth.
• Write down incidents of abuse privately; this can help if you seek legal or psychological support.
• Build a small support circle (friend, colleague, therapist, women’s helpline) — you do not have to fight alone.
• Healing will take time, but reclaiming your life is possible with support and planning.
You deserve safety, dignity, love, and freedom, not fear. What you are asking for is not rebellion — it is basic human right.
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