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I need an solid decision about my ex girlfriend issue.
We are in love for 4 years...we used to spend more time .. but after 4 years there is some situation that we can't able to move on b'cz we were from different religion..we know that our parents will not accept..so we mutually spoken and then we stopped our love talks day by day and at some time we complately stooped and love talks...but we were in touch as we discuss many tings about job day to day activities...1.5 years we were speaking with good friendship... but now as we are attaining 25 yrs .. parents started talks about marriage..after 1.5 yrs we were feeling the pain...
She also getting vex and by seeing that i also not able to be in normal for the past weeks...our past love life is getting back in mind and i mind get strucked..we clearly know that marriage will not happen between us. But now we are feeling the pain.
My query is whether we need to stop talking and break out relationship completely or train the mind
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You need to train your mind to accept the truth and behave accordingly.
You can seek counseling sessions for better clarification.
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Hi. That’s an unfortunate dilemma. If you guys are clear mutually that you do not want to go against your wishes of the family, it’s best to cut the contact completely as further communication will complicate things. However, I suggest you to speak to a psychologist so that you can take one direction with acceptance and you’re able to move on in peace
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Probably , that might be useful for both of you to move on as agreed between yourselves..
Still, reach out to a psychological Counselor for a therapy to get some clarity..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... There are no right and wrong choices in such scenarios. Anything you both choose will have consequences. If you both are sure that you can't take it forward, it is always better to let go a relationship in a decent way, rather than waiting for it to be torn apart. Your friendship may get back after few years into your separate marital lives, if there has been a real friendship between you both.
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Ms. Muthulakshmi
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Chennai
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I can understand your situation. If you both are thinking as this relationship will not work for you and your family, then you need to come out from this relationship. Even when you are having a casual friendship with her, there is more chance to remembering your past love story. It can create some embarassment between you and your girlfriend.
Furthermore, you can consult with a Psychologist for more clarification.
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