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I am in the relationship and I want to get married with that guy but my problem is that he is not financial stable but I am ok with it. My problem is that I am emotionally connected with that guy as like a hell.I share my lil bit problem with him.He is my everything but my parents want my answer that you want to marry with another guy or with your bf. But my future will be great if I married with another guy but at the same time I don't want to loose him at all.can you please help me out with this.
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I will give you answer without getting into jargon or too much professional answers.
The basic issue is you have invested your emotions in this particular guy and he has also invested emotions.
Investments aren't easy to forget people kill each other or themselves if their business investment fails. What about emotional investment, we can change our emotions over time but it definitely impacts the quality of our next relationship. Help your current boyfriend to decide how he can become financially stable. Our advice is totally neutral it's you who has to choose.
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You are here because it's not only your parents but also you as you are also in some kind of dilemma over choosing, ambivalence
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You need counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.
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Hi. Wait some years.
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"Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish."
"Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in the low time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass. The spring will come."
"A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself — to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom ..."
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There can be numerous factors for a happy relationship, Before anything, let’s try to list down a few that are theoretically required for a happy marriage (or relationship)
A loving partner
Mutual respect and care
Mutual trust
Self respect
Absence of piled up frustration
emotional availability and maturity
Dependability
Sexual compatibility
Financial security
And last but not the least, your comfort level with each other, if you feel you can be yourself and don’t have to put up a different face or be pretentious,
Only you would be able to see these criteria’s, if still have self doubts give yourself some time and after that let the correct person come in your life.
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Marriage is a very big decision and mainly depends on were your mind is more happy irrespective of what the situation is! Inner happiness and mental peace is more important in life. You need to relax and think about it clearly and keep both aspects in mind. Take your time after all its your own life!
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Talk to someone who can help you find the right choice clearly
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you might be going through. As marriage is an important decision in your life. You might be confused between your emotions and practical life.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
My suggestion is to look life from A Practical perspective..
You can find that friend in your future Husband also.. Why to rule out that probability..
Consult with a psychological Counselor personally either online or Offline for more clarity..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... This is a typical case of approach- avoidance conflict. On one hand you want too keep this relationship as it is emotionally satisfying and on the other hand feel insecure due to financial/parents/future concerns.
This requires a detailed understanding of your psyche and your situation. There are no right and wrong choices in such scenarios. Anything you choose will have consequences. So it is best to choose what you can defend for a longer period of time.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Ms. Muthulakshmi
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Chennai
Hello
First be relax, before taking any decision, just think about all the things. Marriage is a important process in your life. The decision is yours, you have to choose the choice which one will be suitable for you.
All the best for your future..
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