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I'm in relationship with two girls. I want to settlement down and get married now but not able to decide whom to chose. I feel trapped in this love triangle mess and want to come out. I tried a lot but nothing worked out. Sometimes I feel I love both the girls and sometimes I feel I don't love any of them. All this is hampering my peace, my work and my family. Kindly guide me.
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Hi. Come down. Who makes you more happier in difficult circumstances by offering help or solving your critical problems? She will be yours.
Make one wife , another friend.
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Psychodynamic Counseling
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Love yourself first
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Hi, you are right in saying that you are stuck up in a triangular relationship, don't be in touch with either of your girlfriends. Then talk to a professional counselor.
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Be with urself for some time.Be honest to urself, do some self talk, if you can. Review your journey with both, from beginning till now.
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It seems like you are in a very tough spot as you have to choose between two wonderful people and don't know who to spend the rest of your life with. You have a good bond with both of these women and don't wish to hurt any one of them. You also realize that this can't keep going on. It seems like you need a counseling session doesn't o figure out your issues.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It is indeed tough to take a decision..
Who ever you choose out of those two, one will feel bad..
On the other hand, the doubt in you could be, what if I am making a wrong choice...?
Every decision comes with its own consequences..
Are you choosing the right person of the two, depends on your priority../Preference..
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For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Bangalore
You are facing Approach- Approach Conflict.
It happens many time dear. To take a right decision, you should be aware about your needs, priorities. I suggest you to go for counseling to have better understanding about yourself.
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Don't wait, take your next step by booking online consultation with Psychologist.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You are experiencing an approach-avoidance conflict. On one hand you want a stable marital relationship and on the other hand you are unsure whether your choice will be right or wrong. You want to avoid the pain associated with making a wrong choice.
Taking Counselling Sessions from a Psychologist can help you understand your priorities better and help you make the right choice for yourself.
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Seek Counselling from a Psychologist online/offline.
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To Seek my Services Online you can Google me or visit my Website (https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy)
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Ms. Swapna M Nadgauda
Counselling Psychologist
30 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
First check you like or love them or because they are involved in you and u can not say no to either coz ur enjoying liking and let go, getting attention this way and wantedness for u. You need personal counseling this way issue can not get resolved
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introspect exactly what are u enjoying so u can't say no to any either one girl.
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stop meeting both by giving valid reason and find out what's happening with ur emotions. do not lie or avoid anything.
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