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I was involved in a 1.5 year long relationship with this girl till this July.She broke up with me in this July.There are some facts which I want to share and wanna know those thing's psychological reason. 1)I always used to chat with other girls online besides having her..I flirted with them but at the end used to tell my girlfriend about those girls,why I flirted with those girls and why even I told my girlfriend about those things? 2) I wanted sex,sextings ,normal video calls from my girlfriend but she used to be dramatic about those things and I always used to blame her for less doing those things and broke up and patched up thousand times.I never realised and respected her opinions.3) The last thing is if I was such a narcissistic person then why would I still miss her still now and feels only myself guilty about this breakup?Is it love?
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I think we need to talk more in detail that how it started and how you feel with her, you told about flirting with others but why you did that, is the thing we have to find out. And there are different possibilities for it. Which only gets clear after we start from being.
Second things yes different people have different needs and expectations, so your needs can be different from your partner; but this issue could get solved if you both have talk about it openly and try to come to one page.
Third you shouldn’t title yourself as narcissistic person, let us professionals find out about it. You can just tag yourself narcissistic on base of little information about it. You might not overcome this breakup well. So you just need little support in way of counselling from mental health professionals to move on. It will make your journey a little smooth compared to you doing it by yourself alone.
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Taking help will make you come out of this in smooth way.
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Hi.. adjustment problems are common after break ups.
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It’s a toxic set up
She was submissive and you miss that about her
While when you had her you couldn’t value and preserve your relationship
It’s better to explore as much as you want and then be in a committed relationship
We can talk further about it
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Dr. Arpita Sharma
Psychiatrist
4 yrs exp
Bangalore
Talk to a psychiatrist, it is important to understand your attachment style with your partner that why these difficulties happened.
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Counselling will help to understand urself what exactly is ur personality and how we can work on it
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Dr. Vishal Bhatt
Psychiatrist
6 yrs exp
Rajkot
It's a Lust ..
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Dr. Murtaza Ali
Addiction Psychiatrist
9 yrs exp
Srinagar
It's genuine to feel such kind of emotions after breaking up. You need to consult for proper help and counseling.
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