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I am a married guy, i am happy with my wife she is caring and mangaing the house & kid, but my sex life is not like what i want , its boring sex life, as me and my wife slightly opposite in bed. she want only vanilla sex and however i like kinky, BDSM, sex toys or explore new things in bed.
i shared her some youtube video for exploration but she doesn't shown interest. she has childish behaviour.
Due to this i feel ashamed to talk with her on this topic. And when i am alone I do my kinky things & masterbation when i am alone.
we are happy family, but only issue in bed. I dont know if i have an issue, that i am over thinking about sex?
kindly advice me.
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Hi, good to know that you are a happy family and may you continue to be the same issues like these can be worked on, maybe through some counselling and therapy. Your wife can help understand the blocks that are causing her to not be intimate with you with the kind of approach you want, maybe she’s shy. Maybe she has some conditioning regarding this doesn’t consider this good or I can’t assume I have to talk to her for that, and maybe we all can talk and come to a conclusion and some counselling will really help, so you can contact me for same. All the best.
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Come for couple therapy sometimes due to inner child conditioning there are blocks in the head
This can be worked around
She needs to learn that unless she tastes prawns she won’t know what seafood is
As long as consent and respect is there
There is no harm mixing strawberry with vanilla
Therapy will open up the blocks
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Hi.. so when there is something good going on let it be. However you can sit and discuss with your wife regarding the same.
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consult online for counseling
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Dr. Akkireddy Nandini
Psychiatrist
5 yrs exp
Baharampur
Very nice , u have mentioned that u r having happy family. As u mentioned that , u have fantasies regarding sex, but as one should respect and respond to one' partner, it is better to think and communicate with ur wife and approach her with her consent.
By this way , u can continue a good and best relationship with ur wife.
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Next step - Better to approach a Psychiatrist to communicate better about the problem and maintain the healthy relation with your wife.
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