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Psychological counseling for couples
We have been goin through a tuff time recently. My girlfriend basically overthinks and that too in all negative way possible. I'm not perfect but after her in my life I am trying to clear all my mess for her and us. But a problem broke n now she's is not understands the issues she is relating it to her past and messing up the future I can explain her n also I can do anything to sort this but she is not even ready to listen I even came to a point of breaking this as she wanted but she is oscillating I don't wanna give up on us I need help to sort this coz I know I can't love anyone the way I loved her n no one can love her the way I do knowing her worst side too we both hav seen the worst of each other n I believe it's for gud n I wanna fight to make things right but she has the habit of getting lost in problems n never searching for a solution. How could we deal wit this can someone giv her a glimpse of reality life ain't a fairy tale but she needs to be told the reality in some way
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Dear human, thank you for sharing- it sounds like you have been going through a difficult time. I have to appreciate you for taking the first step in recognizing that there are some issues between you and your girlfriend, and also for taking the second step in choosing to reach out to a professional.
I understand why you may be feeling frustrated, disappointment and hurt, but it is important to consider that these tough times have not been easy for both you and your partner. While you are going through these emotions, your girlfriend may be going through something similar or even different. As the Lead Relationships and Couples Counsellor at Heart It Out, I would be happy to help you navigate some of your concerns.
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Please book an appointment with me through Practo, as we work on understanding what’s happening at the core of your relationship, and learn how both you and your girlfriend can deal with it better together. Until then, try to notice whether there is something that you can do to make the communication open, which can allow you to share your concerns with your girlfriend. You can even try a different mode of communication if direct conversation is not helpful. Hope to hear from you soon- take care.
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First of all kudos to you both on understanding and accepting each others short comings . Even thought it is said that the partner should be understanding, communication to maintain the spark is two way ,probably the way you perceive things and reality and the way you analyze situation and her behavior may not be the case with her inner realization
Hence try and be supportive and since overthinking is the problem you need to understand that it stems out from a point of insecurity and anxiety that she has faced or is currently facing. If you feel with mutual understanding you both can sit and discuss what you feel and perceive about this maybe two of you together can land at a solution endless possibilities ✨
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talk to her with lots of patience and compassion show her your concerned for her and care for her
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consult a professional psychologist i could guide you if need arises
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Ms. Sradhanjali Dasgupta
Psychologist
5 yrs exp
Kolkata
You can get in contact with me at a reasonable price... I can help you out. Am a Consultant Psychologist.
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Ms. Ritika Matta
Counselling Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Hyderabad
You can contact me for an online appointment and we can explore this narrative together
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Ms. Juhi Parashar
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Gurgaon
Yes couple counseling is required for sure
Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online
All the best
Will help you in all possible way
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I appreciate your willingness and initiative to seek a professional support..
I think both of you need to consult a Relationship Counselor..
For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Ms. Indratapa Das
Counselling Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Bangalore
It appears that you would benefit from couple's therapy as it often focuses of clear and open communication. Communication is key, and it can help bridge the gap you currently have.
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Reach out to a counsellor/couple's therapist
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Research effective communication
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