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Feeling like getting into toxic relation . At this time have plan to be in long distance for few months due to some other reasons . Is it good to stay away from our partner during this time ???looking for online couple counselling
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Feeling like you're in a toxic relationship is overwhelming, and it’s completely valid to have doubts about what to do next. Deciding whether to go long-distance or stay requires deeper exploration because every relationship has its own complexities. The patterns, communication dynamics, and emotional impact all play a role, and these can't be fully understood without a proper discussion. A session would help unpack these layers, giving clarity on what’s really happening and what steps might be best for you.
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Entering a toxic relationship can be challenging, especially when considering a long-distance situation. It's essential to prioritize your emotional well-being and assess whether the relationship is truly beneficial for you. Being physically apart for a few months can provide valuable time for reflection, allowing you to evaluate the dynamics of your relationship without the immediate pressures of daily interactions. If you suspect toxicity in your relationship, seeking online couples counseling can be a constructive step. A professional can help both you and your partner navigate your feelings, improve communication, and address underlying issues, whether you're together or apart. Ultimately, focusing on your mental health and establishing healthy boundaries is crucial during this time.
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It sounds like you already have a sense that this relationship might be unhealthy, and that awareness is important. Distance can sometimes provide clarity, allowing both partners to reflect on their needs and emotions without constant tension. However, if the relationship is already toxic, being apart for a few months may not resolve the deeper issues—it could either offer a temporary relief or lead to more uncertainty.
What truly matters is how the relationship makes you feel. If you’re feeling emotionally exhausted, anxious, or unsure, it might be time to explore these feelings in a safe space. Online couples counseling can help both of you communicate better, set healthy boundaries, and determine whether this relationship is nurturing or draining.
If you’re open to seeking help, I can assist you in finding an online couples therapist. If you want to take online therapy sessions, connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.
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It sounds like things have become unmanageable & overwhelming for you which is making you think of taking a break. I know you are also worrying about whether to be in a long distance or not, you are fearing the consequences of it. It must be really hard for you to decide if it is a right or wrong & I appreciate your courage to reach out here for help.
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Try to avoid making difficult decisions when you don't feel balanced.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Couple Counseling Psychologist for the last 17 years. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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Ms. Neha Sachdev
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Delhi
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Sounds you are quite scared right now. What is it that is making your relationship toxic? Is it the long distance ? Or is the long distance a consequence of toxic relationship?
Please go ahead with the consultation. It’s very important that both the partners should understand each other and most importantly, you are able to communicate fears to each other in a non judgmental manner.
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Happy to listen and help you cope with ur issues.
I do take online sessions.
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Dr. Gargi Bansal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Noida
Yes definitely a professional help can be beneficial. It will give an insight to both the partners in self awareness
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Appreciate your willingness to seek a professional support..
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Ms. Amita Chaudhary
Clinical Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Gurgaon
It seems you are already seeing certain red flags in the relationship. However if these signs can be identified and worked towards problem solving and modifying certain behaviors.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi...There is no generic answer to it. Long distance does work and doesn't work in various couples across globe. Sometimes it's due to different work locations and sometimes it is just because two people are born in two different parts of the world. We can't expect everything to fall in place first and then we'll take the first step. We need to take the leap of faith sometimes. Having said that, you first need to introspect whether it is fear or intuition that is clouding your judgement. If it fear, because you experienced or witnessed something similar in the past which ended painfully. Or it is an intuition of something that is not right with this present relationship. Best is to figure it out in a therapeutic setting. Couple therapy is the right solution but you first need to understand what you're feeling.
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Couple Therapy or Individual Therapy is required.
Interpersonal Guidance and Relationship Counselling will work well.
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Ms. Rizwana Parvin T M
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Coimbatore
The solution should be taken by you, I can help in facilitating to take a decision. Take a paper and write down the pros and cons of staying nearby and being in distance from each other. I do take online couple counselling, consult me for the same 😊
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Sanjana Purdhani
Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Delhi
Feeling like youâre in a toxic relationship while also planning for long distance can be emotionally conflicting. Distance can sometimes bring clarity, allowing you to evaluate the relationship without immediate emotional pressure. However, if toxicity exists, physical distance alone wonât fix underlying issuesâit may either provide relief or highlight deeper concerns. Pay attention to how the relationship impacts your mental well-being, both when together and apart.
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Identify patterns, not just moments, Monitor how distance affects your emotions, Establish clear communication, Notice how your partner responds.
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Use the distance as a chance to reflect, Prioritize self-care and personal growth , Consider online couple counseling,
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Ms. Farheen Moulana
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi, I can understand that you are going through a lot of emotional pain. Let’s talk it out first. It’s important to unburden your feelings to make important decisions in life, like relationships for example.
You can connect with me for this.
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