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Problem with the family members
Sometimes, I say them to do something good. But they neglect. Don't pay any attention to what I say.
I , feel , however they wish to live, let them live, but when I be with them in that surrounding, if something goes wrong, I suggest them the idea or the steps to clear them where there is no point of dispute among the joint family, hence they don't here and neglect me . At that moment I get angry with my parents and say I don't want to live with you . You all are here to create problem and force' me to get angry... Actually, you are not going to here me and I am not going to accept that matters which causes a dispute ... Please try to clear your all mixed up matter and pay attention to what you have and other must also pay attention to what they have . There is no point of dispute.
Or the best option I will be away from you...what you like continue, if I don't see, I will never irritate, IF I SEE SOMETHING GOING WRONG I CANNOT TOLERATE I WILL RAISE MY VOICE FOR MY RIGHTS...
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Often we have our strong opinions and values that don’t align well with others in our surroundings. I would suggest that you take counselling sessions to work on some of your feelings and how you can learn to come to a middle ground.
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Hello young man , your concern seems to be worrying you for your family members . When elders are at logger heads how could they respect your concern , since you are too young for them . You need to first focus at your strengths rather than finding solutions into others right now. You need Psychological counselling to know the ways to deal with these problems .
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Try to attend a few Psychotherapeutic sessions online / Tele consultations (through audio/ video )conducted by Senior, licensed, experienced Psychologist who could systematically guide you to help your family . Contact me through Practo .
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Work on your patience & anger issues to motivate others !
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Need to consult with psychotherapist
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Thanks for reaching out. Misunderstanding with family members is common. It is not possible for everyone in the family to have the same opinion. It can be stressful to deal with misunderstandings in the family. If you want to talk about it consult a psychologist for counselling sessions. Try to do your thing and keep your mind calm.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Hi,It is very common to have your own beliefs and arguments with your family as a teenager.It is okay if you are overwhelmed with emotions.It is difficult to change your parents behaviour and actions because they have their own beliefs and values that are deeply rooted.
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Engage yourself with hobbies and activities.
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Torn away between right to speak and not to for family sake is confused state at your tender age of teenage. It must be like no one is listening you. Only Hearing your words and reactions.
Therapy is a good outlet to say how you feel and learn to further communicate. Book a session with me.
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See counseling sessions asap.
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Ms. Rizwana Parvin T M
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Coimbatore
When things are outside your control, trying to change that will cause more stress and frustration. Also try to practice responsive behaviour rather than reactive behaviour with your family members. Try to be tolerant and practise non judgemental attitude and ignore and focus on yourself if possible.
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Ms. Swati Patil
Psychologist
27 yrs exp
Pune
Living in a joint family can be both rewarding and challenging. Addressing these issues often requires open communication, setting boundaries, and sometimes seeking external support like counseling.
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For dealing with emotional and family issues, it might be helpful to talk to a mental health professional. They can offer valuable support and strategies to manage these challenges effectively. Professional guidance can provide new perspectives and help in resolving conflicts and improving overall well-being.
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If emotional issues persist or significantly impact your daily life, consider consulting a mental health professional for guidance and support.
Take care
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Ms. Shivani chamta
Counselling Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Shimla
Hello!
Please ask professional
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Ms. Rupali Mohbe
Clinical Psychologist
25 yrs exp
Ahmedabad
Thank you for reaching out for your concern. Problems with family members really are distressing you a lot. Open and clear discussion is always better for any relationship.
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you should consult with Ms. Rupali Mohbe clinical psychologist for further consultation and therapeutic approaches.
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effective communication with family members with politeness , deep breathing exercises for calmness, spending quality time with them, proper sleep.
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Mr. Aamitabh Debnaath
Counselling Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Kolkata
It's clear that you are going through a tough time right now, and it is very difficult for you now.
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Take psychological counselling.
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Taking care of your mental and emotional health is crucial. Engage in activities that help you relax, feel empowered, and reduce stress.
Try to understand why they behave like that. It could stem from fear, anxiety, love, or a desire to protect you. Understanding their motives can help you approach the situation with empathy.
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Ms. Mohana Priya G
Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hey.....! having such issues are way too common in every single home,but the problem lies with the severity level..... I would suggest you to attend sessions with the us.....then we can surely help with the concern and problems you are facing it
Thanks for the consideration
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Dr. Kavita Bhutani (PhD)
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Gurgaon
Raise your voice for your rights
Don’t stay silent
But It don’t over think
What your parents do is not your job
U have to detach yourself and look at them as people also
Not only parents
Relax deep breathe
Talk to some one
Maybe I can help you
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Dr. Rakhi Anand (PhD)
Psychologist
32 yrs exp
Delhi
Dear Reader
It seems there is issue regarding understanding & cohesiveness amongst family members. Consult Clinical Psychologist for management for family therapy & individual sessions.
Best wishes
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Ms. Usha Sathish
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi,
what is important is that you expressed whats on your mind to your family members. Sometimes, people consider your inputs and other times they reject it. And that is okay. You have no control on others behaviour, you can only contol yours. Focus on what makes you happy.
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Ms. Shivangi Agrawal
Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Gurgaon
Family frustrations are common and can stem from various sources like misunderstandings, differing expectations, or unresolved conflicts. If you'd like to share more about what's bothering you, I can offer some advice or strategies to help manage the situation.
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Ms. Pooja Gupta
Counselling Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Delhi
It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of frustration with your family dynamics and their lack of attention to your suggestions. Itâs clear that you care about maintaining harmony within the joint family and genuinely want to help resolve issues when they arise. However, it's understandably upsetting when your concerns are dismissed, leading to feelings of anger and the desire to distance yourself from the situation. You are advocating for open communication and mutual respect, emphasizing that there should be no disputes over minor issues. Itâs important to express your feelings, but also consider finding constructive ways to communicate your concerns, as this may help create a more understanding environment. Ultimately, itâs about finding a balance where your voice is heard, while also respecting the independence of others in the family. If your concerns continue to go unaddressed, taking a step back might indeed provide you with the peace you seek.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Connect with psychologist to discuss in detail
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Ms. Pavitra Somaiya
Counselling Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Indore
Hello there, I can understand where you are coming from and it is normal to feel this way..However it is important to note that the actions and behavior of others is not under our control. Hence at this point you might feel that your actions might solve a problem or make them feel this way however in most cases that doesn't happen.
The only way out is acceptance!
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