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First step is to find out automatic thoughts whenever you feel anxiety in front of anybody. (e.g. the thought may be “I will sound stupid.”) Second step is to

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1. Thought–Evidence–Alternative (Cognitive restructuring) Before speaking, write: Automatic thought: “My heart will race and everyone will notice that I am nervous.” Evidence for: “I sometimes become nervous.” Evidence against: “Most people are focused on the conversation, not my heartbeat. Nervousness doesn't mean I will perform badly.” Balanced thought: “I may feel anxious, but I can still speak clearly and complete the conversation.” Repeat this rather than trying to convince yourself that you must not feel anxious. 2. Graduated exposure — most important Don't avoid the situations. Make a hierarchy from easiest → hardest. Example: Speak for 1 minute alone while recording yourself. Speak to a friend. Ask a question to a colleague. Speak to a familiar senior. Have a 2–3 minute conversation with an unfamiliar senior. Give a short presentation to several professionals. Repeat each step several times until anxiety becomes more manageable, then move to the next step. The goal is not zero anxiety; it is learning “I can tolerate anxiety and still function.” 3. Shift attention outward Social anxiety often causes excessive self-monitoring: “Is my voice shaking? Is my face red? Are they noticing?” During conversation, deliberately focus on: What the other person is saying Their actual words The point you want to communicate Asking one relevant follow-up question Use the rule: 70% attention on the other person/task + 30% on yourself. 4. Slow breathing + behavioural experiment Before entering the situation: Inhale 4 seconds → exhale 6 seconds, gently, for about 1–2 minutes. Then deliberately speak at your normal/slightly slower pace rather than trying to hide the anxiety.