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Please any mam or sir help me please
Please help me please ... It's been something I am carrying of years ago when I was a kid like 13 kids of my class used to do sexual things to me .. i don't about these things much ..like they were this bad and all i thought they were normal and all ... I used to do these things to my sister .. i used to rub our pvt parts together without clothes ... I was a kid i am not a criminal or something i don't know that this thing was this wrong and all ... I knew this was not ideal but never knew that these things were this wrong and all like ...and now I am in my 20 s realised this and i went to hell i confessed all this to my parents and to my sister and they forgived me and all but on internet i readed about stds cervical cancer and hpv ... And now the fear kills me day and night and all please if anyone can please help me like is she at risk and all
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Iâm really glad you reached out, this must have been very difficult to carry for so long.
From what youâve described, these incidents happened when you were a child and did not fully understand sexual boundaries. This does not make you a criminal; it reflects lack of awareness at that age. The fact that you later recognized it, took responsibility, and spoke openly with your family shows maturity and insight.
Regarding your concern about HPV, STDs, and cervical cancer:
HPV is common but usually spreads through sexual contact with an infected person.
In childhood situations like the one you described, the risk of transmission is generally very low.
Cervical cancer develops over many years due to persistent high-risk HPV infection, not a single childhood incident.
There is no reason to assume your sister is at risk now based on this history.
For reassurance:
Your sister can follow routine health check-ups and HPV vaccination if needed.
If you remain anxious, you may consider a general STI screening for peace of mind.
What seems more significant right now is the guilt and anxiety you are experiencing. I would strongly recommend consulting a mental health professional, as this can help you process these feelings and reduce the constant fear.
You were a child in a confusing situation, and you have already taken responsibility and made amends. Try to be kinder to yourself.
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You can do a simple HPV test .
And take the HPV vaccine. No need to worry.
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Anxiety after Childhood Sexual Exposure
1. Reassurance (very important)
• Childhood non-penetrative contact → very low risk of Human papillomavirus infection / STDs
• Cervical cancer risk → negligible in this scenario
• Family already forgiven → no ongoing harm
2. Mental health care
• Screen for anxiety, guilt, intrusive thoughts
• Refer Psychiatry/Psychologist (trauma-focused CBT)
3. Symptomatic treatment (if needed)
• Anxiety severe → short-term SSRI (e.g., Escitalopram)
4. Education
• Clarify normal vs abuse in childhood context
• Remove misinformation about STDs/HPV
5. For sister (safety check)
• If asymptomatic → no special tests needed
• Routine screening as per age (Pap smear after 21 yrs)
• Consider HPV vaccine if eligible
6. Red flags (urgent psych referral)
• Suicidal thoughts
• Severe guilt/functional impairment
→ Main issue = health anxiety + guilt → needs reassurance + counseling
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Get one HPV test done
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Take HPV vaccine
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Don't worry
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Dr. Prateeksha B S
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Dr. Pendekanti Malleswari
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Don't worry too much. Do HPV Testing.Visit a VENERIOLOGIST Who can help you.
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Dr. Neha Vashisth
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Jaipur
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