Mood swing, violence. To control anger?

Mood changes very quickly ,no limit of anger,within seconds makes issues,starts shouting ,crying,abusing,physical and verbal violence,even sometimes throwing things without thinking,demanding everything that she finds impossible,demand is fulfilled then starts another issue till we loose patience ,burst into tears or stats shouting,shows extreme hate towards family members,don t want to stay home ,most time stays outside home with friends,outside very mannered,well behaved sweet speaking girl.her father is an alcoholic ,suffered his violence,now he is not living with us,even then she misbehaves me and her elder sister,fed up ,can say terrorized by her violence want to get rid of it ,she,don t want to visit psychetrist as she says you want to say i am mad.how can i control her violence and is there any medicine to control anger ?