Recently since few months I started getting jealous too much from my brothers and their wives. My parents gives them more attention and being a single girl at home make me feel more jealous.
Somewhere I know loving someone doesn't mean to control them.. so as I don't want to control my parents or emotional blackmailing them. But this makes me feel so helpless. I don't have close friends 2years back I got broke up with my bf (7year relationship) somewhat I think breakup is th biggest factor of my all insecurity and jealousy.. that was the same reason of my breakup too
I just want to be happy and make my surrounding people happy.. but expects alot.. I want them to control and behave like what i want.. which is impossible.
I know my problem and also knows the solution for this.. but don't know the path
Trying to find a person who judges me and can guides me to overcome my jealousy factor
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You feel you are not getting attention from home because you are the only girl. You are feeling insecure and jealous. It seems like your insecurity is affecting your relationship. You want to happy. To feel better consult a psychologist. A psychologist will guide you on how you can be happy. You have to be happy with yourself. Being happy with yourself will help you enjoy relationships.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counseling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
Hi dear, it's the right approach that you have taken to evaluated your cause of pain and unhappiness. Now just imbibe learning from your past experience and apply this learning in your behaviour. Yes it's true sometime change is difficult due to past conditioning.
That is why it is said EQ is more than IQ.
You can learn emotional management skills and resources skills from any mental health care professional nearby or through practo online consultation.
Hi... It is perfectly okay to feel happy, sad, jealous, or generous at times. These are all natural human emotions which have a place of their own in different phases of our lives. Your breakup and your issues with your parents not giving you enough attention is one of the reasons for your unhappiness. But I believe the more prominent issue is that you don't have anything or anyone to lookup to. You are not able to drive your identity out of anything and that has also become an issue in itself. A challenging career or a good relationship not only provides us an occupation but it also gives us a sense of identity and value that we all human beings crave for. Creating a healthy relationship might take some time but you may start finding something you are passionate about and try to create a profession out of it. Joining a course or a degree or finding a job may be a good start. Do not try to look too far ahead. Just take one step at a time and you will find yourself in a better place than yesterday.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychologist.
Career Guidance and Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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