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How To adjust Friendship When we have in relationship ... I am totally Irritate Because When I am Spend some Time with my Friend My bf Get Angry on me... He shout on me... My Friend Is So understanding but sometimes He is also Irritate Because of him.... And I am feel So Frustrated To handle Both of them... They Both have Sometimes fight because Of me... So how I can handle This... because I want Both of them...
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You need to prioritise your goal.
Set up your own parameters and follow them.
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You may need counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.
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Ability and Maturity of handling relationships requires understanding of inter personal aspects and communication skills too.
You ate welcome to rake an appointment with me to assist develop the said facets.
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practice mindfulness
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Just a normal case .
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Plz connect with psychologist to learn assertiveness.
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Counseling
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Hi, Consult a psychologist for learning interpersonal skills, assertiveness skills.
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Ms. Sheetal Kusumbe
Counselling Psychologist
21 yrs exp
Thane
Greetings for the day!
I understand it can be quite overwhelming to be caught in such situations. As much as you would wish an ideal balance in this equation, it may not turn play out it in this manner.
As a first aid, I feel that you can on priority introspect what is in your control as in your intentional or unintentional behaviours that could be triggers for obsession and thus this imbalance.
You can bring the calm and assurance by being in control yourself.
Also time management and priorities can truly help.
Wish you victory over your situational dilemma.
Happy Healthy Living!
You can consult for further assistance.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.. The last line explains it all, "because I want both of them". You are trying to give equal importance to two unequal relationships. You first need to get your priorities right and than need to smoothly enforce it to given web of relationships. Boyfriend and Bestfriend cannot have the same value in your life in a given time frame. No matter how romantic/idealistic that idea may sound in your mind but it is practically impossible. Especially, if you are serious about this romantic relationship and looking forward to having a future together. Your friend, no matter how close to you cannot breach into the space of a couple and it is not okay for him as well. He will get hurt in the process without having to get anything out of it. Try having an open communication with your own self first and then communicate it with your friend and your boyfriend. Once you are able to set your own priorities right, others will fall in line naturally. What is occurring here is a rift between 2 relationships that are struggling to ascertain their relative position in your life. Only you can end it.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Ms. Mithila Desai
Psychologist
37 yrs exp
Mumbai
Hello , Thanks for reaching out
While it’s absolutely necessary to have healthy balance between your spouse and friends , sometimes it can be an obsessive need to seek attention, particularly if someone is suffering from a low self-esteem which could lead to crave unreasonably addicted to approval and validation from others
And this could be one of the reasons, however it’s completely subjective and more details would be required to fully understand..
Having said that at the end of the day, significant others come and go, but family and friends are (hopefully) forever. As wonderful as it feels to be in the throes of romantic love, it can also be fickle and fleeting. The last thing you want is to reach the end of a relationship, only to find you’ve alienated everyone else in your life. As the saying goes, “No man (or woman!) is an island.” Building a well-rounded community of people is essential to living an enriching life.
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Work on interpersonal skills
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Dr. Kavita Bhutani (PhD)
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Gurgaon
First of all you should open communication and express your feelings
Make a journal and write down when and how your boyfriend reacts
Is it with only this one friend or others also
What could be the probable triggers and talk about them
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Consult a therapist online for a journal and communication guidance
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Don’t let any dominating personality lead you to toxic relationships
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Mr. Atul Tyagi
Clinical Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Delhi
Hello
I understand that you’re experiencing difficulties in your social life which is impacting your personal life as well.
It seems like there are some issues with your boyfriend being so protective of you and due to having no defined boundaries, he is having a say in each and everything that you do.
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I would really suggest you to actually communicate the things with your boyfriend and try to develop some boundaries in the relationship so that you don’t experience distress.
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Consider taking Relationship therapy from an licensed clinical psychologist to help you both to resolve the issues effectively.
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