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Hyper self awareness
Hello doctor, I’ve been dealing with a constant self-awareness problem for a long time. I keep noticing my thoughts, body sensations, and especially my eye contact, which makes me uncomfortable in social situations.
This started around 4 years ago when I was in 11th class and went through a phase of depression. At that time, I had issues like sleeplessness, overthinking, and constantly analysing my thoughts.
I also had very high phone usage earlier (which I have now reduced), but I feel my attention is still stuck inward. My main problem right now is difficulty with natural eye contact and excessive self-awareness.
I would like guidance on how to manage this and feel normal again.
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This sounds like hyper self-focus / self-monitoring, commonly seen after anxiety or depressive phases, where attention gets stuck inward (thoughts, body, eye contact), making social interaction feel unnatural—not a serious illness, but a reversible pattern; the goal is to shift attention outward rather than control the symptoms: stop monitoring eye contact consciously, focus on the conversation or the other person’s words, and allow natural breaks in eye contact; avoid over-analyzing thoughts (let them pass without engaging), and practice gradual exposure—short, low-pressure conversations daily instead of avoidance; also maintain sleep, physical activity, and limit rumination time; if it persists or is distressing, brief CBT-based therapy can help retrain attention effectively.
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For sleeplessness, you can reduce your phone usage, specially before bedtime, eat 3 hours before sleep and do some physical exercise 1 hour post dinner.
Being self aware is good thing. But if interferes with your daily life, it is better if you consult a psychiatrist
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It can be corrected with consultation with a psychiatrist. Do consult one nearby. Good luck
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It sounds like you’re dealing with excessive self awareness where your attention is constantly turned inward towards your thoughts body sensations and especially eye contact which then makes social situations feel unnatural and uncomfortable. This often begins after a phase of depression or overthinking and becomes a habit where the mind keeps monitoring itself instead of staying present. The more you try to control or check how you are coming across the more awkward it feels. The key is to slowly shift your focus outward by paying attention to the other person’s words expressions and tone rather than yourself and to let go of the idea of maintaining perfect eye contact since natural interaction is never that controlled. When you notice yourself becoming overly aware just acknowledge it and gently bring your attention back outside without fighting it. With consistent practice and by not avoiding social situations this pattern can reduce and your interactions will start to feel more natural again.
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Dr. Indraja Sharma
Psychiatrist
7 yrs exp
Kota
This looks like hyper self-focus after anxiety/depression, which is common and reversible.
Try shifting attention outward—focus on the conversation, not your eye contact. Let eye contact be natural, don’t monitor it. Practice brief daily social interactions, and allow thoughts to pass without analysing them.
With consistency, this improves. If distress continues, CBT-based therapy can help retrain attention effectively.
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Ms. Sheetal Kusumbe
Counselling Psychologist
21 yrs exp
Thane
Hello,
Thank you for sharing your concern here.
Everything is good in equilibrium. Self awareness and social interactions both require a balanced approach.
Counseling sessions can help you to understand the patterns of your behaviour and the underlying reasons.
Relevant coping mechanisms can help you establish a good connection with yourself and the external world.
Giving a direction to your awareness shall help you to reap the right benefits of holistic wellness.
You can consult for further professional guidance.
I wish you progressive healing.
Happy Healthy Living!
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Dr. Bojja Sarada Sireesha
Addiction Psychiatrist
8 yrs exp
Puducherry
Hello, I understand what you’re going through. The constant self-awareness, over-monitoring of thoughts, and difficulty with natural eye contact can feel very uncomfortable, especially in social situations.
From what you’ve described, this could be related to residual anxiety issues, where the mind gets into a habit of over-focusing on itself (hyper self-awareness)—something commonly seen after episodes of depression and prolonged overthinking.
The good thing is that this is reversible and treatable with the right guidance.
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What you can try:
Gently shift focus to the other person during conversations
Keep eye contact natural (don’t force it)
Avoid repeatedly checking or analyzing yourself
Practice simple grounding techniques
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Since this has been persistent, a detailed assessment will help identify the exact cause and guide you with structured techniques (like CBT) for better improvement
You may consider consulting a mental health professional online for a detailed assessment and a personalized plan.
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Dr. Riya Gangwal
Psychiatrist
7 yrs exp
Indore
Proper therapy sessions can help you with this. Keeping your awareness inside or say being mindful about your thoughts, emotions and behaviour is not a bad thing in itself. But if there is any associated cognitive distortion (thought pattern) like you are not good enough or that you are doing something wrong then you will be having difficulty in understanding your thought. By proper detailed assessment we can understand why is it that you feel this awareness is stopping you from socialising because that is not the root of this. Contact me directly for a detailed evaluation on nine eight two six five four five six six zero.
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