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Sir I am already committed but one girl offering me sex she is just 18 what to do I am consufed as I already have girlfriend if u I do sex with her is this harmful for me
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In this case, the girl has nothing to do. It’s you who needs to prioritise what is important for you. If your girlfriend and the relationship is important, than you can always ignore such gestures from others.
It’s your choice and desire. Other has no role to play. So be rational.
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Hi there,
First of all if you are already committed then why are you here asking for guidance if some one is offering you....There should not be any confusion if you are committed!!
Why do you need to give in to your hormones?
You are 30 and the girl is 18, who is matured here? You or her?
If you are so much committed with your girl friend then be loyal to her even if 100 numbers also offer you... That's integrity!!
But, if you are getting confused with the 18 year old girl then you are not loyal enough to your girl friend.... Is not it? Think over it...
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Of your confusion is because that 18 yr old is offering you sex, then first ask yourself are you really committed to the other girl? Or is it just sex that makes you committed. Having sexual feelings is normal but having it for others means you have to do a reality check.
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Ms. Ananthi
Counselling Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Chennai
Hi Anyone can offer sex. But learn to be true to your girlfriend if you are committed. Dont lose your present relationship for these kind of offers.
Dont have confusions.
Consequence Example - imagine if you accept the offer of other girl offering you sex, later you will not like yourself or your girlfriend. You will blame or doubt her if she has done like what you have done. Then you will blame her that she has left you.
Another example - imagine if you accept the offer and one day you feel guilty about it, that will lead to further stress.
Or if you do it now and if u start accepting offers like this, your emotions will fade away and you will not be able to real love with your girlfriend.
One thing can lead to various situations. Think before you act.
If stilll you have confusions ,consult a psychologist.
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Ms. Nikeeta Shah
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Pune
Hi! Being inclined to physical desires is quite natural. Considering the fact that you are already committed, please try to analyze if you want to go ahead with having a casual sexual relation with a girl, or to be open about it with your girlfriend. Certainly both the choices will have consequences. Please also try to analyze why did this confusion occur to you in the first place. If you're happy in the current relation in all aspects or not.
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Ms. Seema Jathar
Counselling Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Pune
Hello
Here it's not about the girl who is offering you sex it's about you why you even thinking about it as you said you are committed in your relationship. Ask yourself are you happy in your current relationship or you are bored with it? You can have sex with anyone but what about your emotional needs, there's no point in feeling guilty about it afterwards. You need to clear your confusion and your thoughts about it.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
There is no harm In having Sex.
Yet, with whom are you having it, is still to be thought though...
If you are committed to your girlfriend, cheating her is what that you need to reflect within you.
Take a wise call...
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Ms. Kavita Sharma (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Udaipur
I appreciate that you are aware about your feelings. I also appreciate that you are approaching guidance from professionals.what you have shared it is on your choice but first you have to check with yourself how comfortable you are to going ahead with this. You mentioned your confused, I suggest you have to understand with your own self rather than going ahead so that you will not feel guilty in future. It's also depend many factors likes how is your relationship, is there something you are facing in your personal life and many more.if it is difficult for you to understand your emotions I suggest you to consult with psychologist to help you best.
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