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Getting sexual thoughts
I am getting sexual thoughts on every object i look i dont know what to do. Even on some gods.I feel insecurity with these situations.
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First thing, don't judge your self.,.. Good bad ugly coz the  more  u judge  the  more  intense feelings get.. Hypnosis helps... To get to the root. Nlp helps to change behaviour
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Hi, Sexual thoughts are a natural processes of growing up. What you need to know is it should not cross the societal norms. I am glad that you have identified that your thought processes are crossing the societal norms. When you have identified that what you doing is wrong then it is easy for you to come out of it.
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1. Divert your mind in something else. 2. Focus on positive things. 3. Tell yourself that you can
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As we go through puberty, hormones affect our bodies and emotions in new ways. This makes us curious about sex, and more likely to have sexual thoughts and feelings. However if the thoughts are intrusive, with involuntary images or ideas that have become an obsession It can be upsetting or distressing, and can feel difficult to manage sexual obsessions are like any other OCD obsession in that they are unwanted and intrusive thoughts that are deeply distressing to the person experiencing them. You need to talk understand the severity of these thoughts, if they are interfering your day to day functioning you need to seek help immediately
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If you are getting taboo sexual desires, which you are finding difficult to control you need to see a psychiatrist for medications followed by a proper psychotherapeutic measures by a clinical psychologist.
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Hi there, At your age it's natural to get sexual thoughts but it should not cross over the societal norm is what is needed for you now.... You cannot give any medicine and control the urge.... What you can do is, put your mind on any constructive work... When ever there is sexual thought don't sit in that thought for a long time.... Wake up and do something which is good for your future life... These thoughts are natural but donot allow yourself to drown in it... When you donot have anything to do, your mind easily lapses to sensual thoughts... It happens to any adult... So put your mind in your hobbies or any project or any study courses which is useful for your life... These are harmonal changes which is peak at your age so donot give in to these kinds of thoughts.. Don't worry if you are seeing God in that sense as you are trying to gratify your thoughts... Ask sorry to God's if you are feeling guilty... Donot cross over societal norms... Be happy, learn something new...
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Visit a male psychiatrist or a psychologist if you are unable to have a check on your urges....
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Daily physical exercise... No watching pornography for gratification.... Eat healthy.. Do meditation... Divert your mind whenever you get such thoughts... Be constructive... Learn new things which are helpful for your career.... Don't dive into these thoughts for long time, wake up and do something useful... Or else wear your shoes n start running.... Take care...
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Hi Sexual thoughts are natural. Our body (with neurological systems and chemical changes) and mind are inter related. When there is a change in our body, it certainly projects in mind also. Vice versa, if mind is influenced, then we can see certain changes in our body. It is quite a simple mechanism. Coming to your question with reference to above fact. You can get sexual thoughts or fantasizing thinking flow only when your testosterone is produced inside your body and semen accumulation. Now, without any warning, you will get sexual feelings (from your own body) and start thinking in N number of multiple way (fantasy). But in fact sexual behaviour is for reproduction purpose only. All those ideas and fantasies will slow down once you realize that sex is an out come of reproduction purpose. Just like when your stomach is hungry, you will start fantasizing about very nice foods. You might think about Biryani, samosa, or nice andhra meals or pizza or anything which you feel satisfies your hungry. Like wise, when vital chemicals are produced, you feel sexual drive, which further allows you to think or imagine anything to satisfy the drive. During hungry, if you have samosa or pizza, it's not good for your health. But you can have good meals or breakfast items which will satisfy your hunger at the same time keeps you healthy. So dear, when you get such drives, you can imagine how ever in comes to your mind. But try to channalize towards your natural counterpart gender. But not objects. In another way, you get aroused to an object as it reminds you of your imaginations about counterpart gender. These imaginations are within you only. If you attempt to bring it as a behaviour, then please you can convey to your parents, or good friends or psychologists. So that, they will guide to in the right direction to let you have a healthy life.
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Reduce, spicy and high junk foods. Try to avoid, more garlic and fried foods. Eat lots of fruits. go for a walking. avoid friends who talk fantasy about this matter. tryst friends who look about it in a healthy way
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There are so many and many other things in our life. sex is just not even 1%. Focus on your studies and treat your counterpart gender very gently and protect them. the nature will give you the wisdom of handling your hormones. brave boy you are... all the best
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Your problem is OCD. U Need Medication and CBT.
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Consult Psychologist
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1)RELAXATION TECHNIQUES  2) Thought stoping 3) REBT 4) CBT
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Thank you for sharing your concern. I appreciate that you are aware about your issue and approaching help from professionals. What you are going through it may be due to many factors.I suggest you to consult with Psychiatrist or Psychologist for your best.
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When sexual desires and impulses arise within us at a very fast pace, we look for quick solutions to get rid of them. However, those solutions do not last for long, because it’s not possible to control sexual desires through a quick fix. It requires thorough understanding, a lot of patience, internal steadiness, and most importantly, a firm commitment.
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Prolonging sexual thought and fantasising how you can enjoy it, will also make the impulses stronger.
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You should remain alert and not let any sexual thought continue for a long time. This should also get professional help so that you can feel better.
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