Hi there...Erectile dysfunction may be due to many causes as many physiologic, hormonal, and psychogenic factors are involved in the ability to obtain and maintain erections... most of the times it will be psychological but other conditions like diabetes, hypertension, hormonal imbalances and intake of certain drugs can be the cause so these should be ruled out..treatment mainly depends upon underlying cause if its psychogenic counseling with psychiatrist with meditation, yoga etc will help...they may prescribe certain medication as well to maintain erections..if its organic cause it should be dealt accordingly...kindly consult psychiatrists they will do the needful....
for better erection:
Have good sleep, do exercise & yoga daily for 1 hour.
Take hot milk 1 glass morning & evening.
Avoid spicy..chilli.nd fried food
Take CP SHILAJIT
tb....Manmath ras ....
nd tb....sidh makardhwaj bati...
one each morning & evening for 3 months...wd hot milk..
See d results or otherwise consult a sexologist personally .
The solution to your problem lies in your answer. You are losing erection because of the fear of losing erection.
You need to completely relax. Keep your mind clear before you have sex, and you'll be fine.