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Ashamed Of Myself
I feel ashamed of myself .I always got signals but I always ignored got used by a guy and the very next day he left me giving irrelevant reasons now begging him to atleast take his responsibility and he is refusing making fun of myself laughing at me it gives him pleasure when I cry or begs him or whenever he sees me begging...I'm regretting I'm disappointed in me what should I do ? I am stopped studying since 2 months now.he is enjoying have a job having fun with girls and so on and I'm wasting my precious time as I'm having anxiety due to fear of pregnancy ik I'm not pregnant but to be sure I have to take a test and buying a pregnancy kit by myself makes me feel so so bad I never buy such things it's so shameful for me but to feel ease I'll have to do it .as ik Noone going to help me and expecting from others is not a good idea .I feel really bad I have betrayed My parents who always fulfilled my wishes supported me and In return this is what I have given them it kills me
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Please book an appointment with me . U need to look into yourself more clearly and deeply, thereby taking care of yourself and your life.
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Consult with me for free dear
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Hi You are upset about the way he has treated you. He is not taking responsibility for what he has done. I understand what you must be going through. You feel he has used you. I understand you are feeling extremely upset and disappointed by his behaviour. It is important to remember that you should not feel ashamed of yourself and you should not feel you have betrayed your family. To feel better you can consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through.
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It's a part of life. You need to overcome the problem. I think you are quite strong enough to overcome it. You need to improve your perception and decision making skills. I suggest you to get counseling sessions from the expert psychologist. It would be immensely helpful.
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Hello dear I can understand what you might be going through. It might really be hard for you to move on and not think about the situation that you are in. You might also be feeling disappointed and helpless. Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible. You can also contact me and I will try to help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solution. Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Compassion more broadly is about an awareness of the distress that other people are experiencing and a desire to help. So, to me, self-compassion is taking that same sentiment and applying it to oneself. Everyone needs support through their journey in healing and growth. And why shouldn’t that support also come from within? Think of self-compassion, then, not as a destination, but as a tool in your journey.
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1. Use affirmations to practice self-compassion Many of us who struggle with self-compassion also struggle with what I often call the shame or self-doubt monster, whose voice can pop up at the most unexpected moments. With that in mind, I’ve named some very common phrases of the shame monster: “I’m not good enough.”“I shouldn’t feel this way.”“Why can’t I do things like other people?”“I’m too old to be struggling with these issues.”“I should have [fill in the blank]; I could have [fill in the blank].” Just like flexing a muscle or practicing a new skill, cultivating self-compassion requires that we practice “talking back” to this shame monster. With time, the hope is that your internal voice becomes stronger and louder than the voice of self-doubt. Some examples to try: “I’m absolutely worthy and divinely deserving.”“I’m allowed to feel however I effing feel — my feelings are valid.”“I’m unique in my own wonderful ways while still sharing sacred interconnected human experiences with many.”“I’ll never ever be too old (or too much of anything, for that matter) to continue cultivating curiosities about my own behaviors and spaces for growth.”“In this moment I am [fill in the blank]; in this moment I feel [fill in the blank].” If these don’t feel natural to you, that’s OK! Try opening up a journal and writing some affirmations of your own. 2. Come back to the body As a somatic therapist who focuses on the mind-body connection, you’ll find that I always invite people to return to their bodies. It’s kind of my thing. Oftentimes, utilizing drawing or movement as tools for processing can be quite helpful. That’s because they’re allowing us to express ourselves from a space we aren’t always fully conscious of. With this in mind, gently invite yourself to draw how it felt to feel into the affirmations I offered — perhaps focusing on one that spoke to you deeply. Allow yourself to use any colors that are resonating with you and any medium of creation that’s resonating with you. As you’re doing so, also allow yourself to notice and be curious about how it feels in your body to draw. Do you notice any areas of tension in your body? Can you try releasing them through your art? How hard or soft are you pressing down with your marker as you’re creating? Can you notice how that feels in your body, and then what it feels like to invite different variations of pressure on the paper? All of this is information that your body is kind enough to share with you, if you’ll listen. (Yes, I know it sounds a little woo-woo, but you might be surprised by what you find.) Compassion for self isn’t always the easiest to cultivate, especially when we can often be our own worst critic. So, finding other ways to access our emotions that take us out of the verbal realm can really help. Whatever it is you’re feeling, no need to judge it. Simply meet yourself wherever you are. Working toward releasing the judgements and expectations placed upon us by others isn’t easy work, but it’s sacred work. With time it can be a real source of empowerment. You’re healing a wound that many aren’t even aware of; you deserve to celebrate yourself through it all. With time, as you flex this new muscle, you’ll find that self-compassion is a ready torch, there to lead you through whatever comes your way.
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Hi... There are various online medical stores that deliver medicines at your doorsteps. You can order online with some other medicines, it comes packed like other things. Also, please seek professional help for your psychological concerns. This toxic relationship has torn your self-esteem, self image, and self worth. You need guidance and counselling to overcome this set back in your life.
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Buy pregnancy test online. Consult a Psychologist. CBT along with Interpersonal Relationship Counselling and Personal Guidance is required.
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Namaste, Regret to hear what you’re going through. Please remember, you were in a bad situation, doesn’t make you a bad person. In life, there will always be ups and downs, things you will celebrate and things you would regret. Don’t be so hard on yourself! Focus on yourself, the present and not the one who doesn’t deserve it and is in the past. However, to help with feels of poor self esteem, confidence and over this sense of betrayal, building a strong emotional resilience would be important! Hope your day seems better.
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Hi you definetly need counseling to resolve the inner conflicts for better mental health.you are going through slot counseling will helo you to make you feel better. You have taken first step towards it which is half the battle won. Call me at seven eight nine two seven zero five four seven seven... .session will be of fifty minutes. cost three hundred only. whatz app @seven zero two  six six six two six six four
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counseling required u can contact me at seven eight nine two seven zero five four seven seven...
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session will be of fifty minutes. cost is three hundred rupees only. whatz app @seven zero two  six six six two six six four
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