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Anxiety problem
My bf is suffering from anxiety anger issues which hurting him alot he get trigger in small small things he hurt himself and we had alot fight because of this even same i feel for my self his mind get stop working dizziness arguing of same topic 3-4 hr trying to leave me want to end relationship he don't want to lesion even he is suffering from headache and pain and in nerves alot
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I can understand that you have concern about your bf( anger , anxiety ) emotional problems.
He need counselling session
If he is not ready for counseling in that case you can go for counselling and learn how to deal with person who have anger or anxiety issue and can prepare yourself if your bf decide to end the relationship without emotional disturbance (depression, anxiety,hurt) and learn how to communicate with your bf without fight assertively
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go for counselling
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Hi dear,
Your boyfriend needs to consult a psychologist for proper guidance. Kindly consult .
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Without any delay suggest your BF to connect with Psychiatrist or Psychologist for further investigation and diagnosis to identify the exact cause of his condition.
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Accept the situation and try to focus on your physical and mental well-being because your bf is not under your control, you can only suggest him .
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Suggest him to connect with Psychiatrist or Psychologist for improvement personal life and in relationship.
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Hi, Talk to him when he is calm and ask him to consult a psychologist for professional help
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Please get him for a session...
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Individual level Session
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Psychotherapy
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I can understand that it is all very overwhelming for you. As these issues are primarily of your boyfriend it is advisable that he seeks counselling sessions for himself to address the anxiety and anger issues. However if he is unwilling to do so it would be recommended for you to take sessions for yourself. Through therapy you will be able to identify and support your needs along with supporting him
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Therapy sessions
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Get professional support and understanding of the whole situation. The therapist will help by testing the mental health and also provide necessary medication, if required.
Couple counselling along with the above will help you and him understand where the two of stand, and the relation. There has to be a better way to take the relationship ahead, which can happen only with professional help.
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see a therapist.
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try not having conversations by yourselves anymore, maybe, as it might act as triggers
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That is concerning behavior and not a healthy way to handle conflict. It sounds like your relationship is very volatile and potentially emotionally abusive, and that's not okay.
Here are some suggestions for you:
> Encourage him to seek help from a professional, like a therapist or counselor.
> Take care of yourself and prioritize your own mental health.
> Don't engage in long arguments that are unproductive.
> Be aware of your safety and wellbeing.
> Remember that you deserve to be in a healthy, respectful relationship.
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Try consulting a psychologist/therapist.
If you would ever want to connect, I'll be there :)
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Suggest him to seek a professional support..
Let him consult a Therapist to overcome this issue..
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Ms. Simran Dugar
Mental Health Counselor
3 yrs exp
Kolkata
I'm truly sorry to hear that your boyfriend is going through such a tough time with anxiety and anger issues. It's important to encourage him to seek professional help, like therapy, to work through these challenges. A therapist can provide valuable insights and strategies to help him manage his triggers and emotions better. Remember, it's not easy for him, and it can be stressful for you too. Seeking professional support is a positive step towards improving his well-being and your relationship.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Try to go for couple counseling.
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connect
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consult
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Pooja Gupta
Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Kolkata
Give patience and respect to this relationship and consider couple counselling, if both of you are willing. It is difficult to under what exactly is going wrong between the two of you. If he has anger issues, it needs to be addressed and spoken about to someone. Anxiety can be happening because of constant anger and arguments and the whole situation. It can all be worked on. Why does he want to end the relationship? Try asking him that. Is he going through other issues at home or in personal/professional life that it’s impacting his relationship? Or is the relationship impacting his regular routine and life? It seems like you talk and communicate enough with each other but what exactly is his reason or your reasoning is unclear.
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Connect & counselling.
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