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Anxiety and sleeplessness
Hi i and my husband got married 5 yrs back.. i and him has different mindset and ideology .. even though everything was going ok like sometimes great or sometimes little disagreements .. we visit my mother's (his in-law) house very often in our free time as we live near to them but from few weeks i have observed that my husband while calling me or addressing me uses my younger sister's name accidentally who lives in my mom's house ( she is 25 yrs old and Unmarried ).. once or twice i ignored but wen whenever we come from that house, the same day or for next two to three days he does this mistake.. this is really disturbing me alot.. has he got attracted to her? Number of questions popping out from my mind.. i have two kids to look after ( 4yrs old and 2 yrs old ).. i am unable to sleep from past one week and the worst i cant share this thing with anyone.. pls help me out..
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Here are 15 steps I recommend you to do: Do sports (at home, if you feel more confortable) but 3x 30min/week. Desensitize yourself (little by little) by exposing you to some situation that make you uncomfortable/anxious. Start going out of your comfort zone at home: take cold showers. Do it. Eat more greens, oilseeds, fresh fruits and food rich in magnesium such as: raw spinach, fish, beans, lentils, avocados, brown rice, bananas, figs and chocolate. Do a cure of prebiotic and probiotic. Brain and gut are linked. If you have a pet, cuddle with it more often and take care of it. It will make you shift your focus to something else. Try to catch the sun everyday for 10mins. Check your levels of vit D and B12 (adjust with supplements if needed). Learn how to breathe and cardiac coherence. Yoga, you can find plenty of stuff online. Mindfulness meditation, it’s not hard, stick to it. If you feel anxiety, let it come, don’t fight against it. Take deep breath (inhale for 6 seconds, hold for 2, exhale for 6. Do it again). Instead of reacting with resistance and fear to the sensations, you are going to respond with curiosity and excitement. Sleep enough (7 to 9hours/night). The earlier you wake up, the better. Quit smoking and avoid drinking alcohol. Smile. Smiling, even for nothing, tricks the mind and releases happy hormones. Anxiety is always going to be there because it’s a normal mechanism of protection.
Next Steps
consult Psychiatrist/ Psychologist
Health Tips
Do Yoga and meditation, Go for counselling session
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Hello Better to visit less frequently to your moms place. Accompany your husband there. Don't let your husband and sister talk in isolation. Rest everything will be ok
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